Your goal in atracting women is to manipulate how they see you.In my opinion being a mystery to women is dangerous.It allows other people or circumstances to influence their perception of you.It's better to move fast and influence her mind before anyone or anything else influence her first.
THE EYES
If corporations like proctor and gamble can make billions of dollars a year by 'packaging' and 'branding' commodity items like detergent and toothpaste then you should be able to package and brand yourself to attract women.The guys on this board pretty much know how to do that:
Dress right
Workout
keep a clean haircut
The way you dress ('package yourself') should communicate who you are.It's NOT about dressing the way you like and then trying to impose your attraction on a woman.If you are trying to attract a proffesional type woman and you dress like a thug and figure you can 'will' a woman to like you it aint gonna happen.Now if you know that this proffessional woman LIKES thugs then your in business
Social Proof
If you are constantly seen with other women then that gives you social proof and we all know that women want men that are attractive to other women.Do these women have to be women that are girlfriends?No! Any woman will do.As long as your projecting the perception that that sister, cousin, or friend IS your lover.Your just strolling along in the mall with your female cousin looking for a birthday gift.The women who see you with this woman(your cousin) will have the PERCEPTION that you are with this woman and that you must be attractive and desirable.
PERCEPTION becomes REALITY!
Authority
How you dress and how you talk can give the PERCEPTION of being an alpha male(authority).I used to work security and it's mind boggling how women react to a man in uniform.Those same women don't even notice me without my uniform.That security uniform gave the PERCEPTION of alpha maleness.The same thing happens when I wear a suit.
PERCEPTION becomes REALITY!
Scarcity
If you are around a woman constantly she will begin to think that you have no life no friends and you dont have any other women in your life and worse she will think you are puting her on a pedastal.Okay maybe you don't have friends a life or anything to do.Does it matter?No!Give off the PERCEPTION that your busy.Call once a week or have her call you and rush her off the phone.Tell her you have this to do or that to do and let her know that your doing it with someone.Appear to have A LIFE.
PERCEPTION becomes REALITY!
The EARS
What women see of you is important but remember that women are much more turn on by what they hear than by what they see.Hearing is very powerful because a woman can only SEE you when she SEES you!But she can HEAR about you when your not even around.Your job as a 'marketer' is to eliminate any bad perceptions that she may hear about you and promote good perceptions that goes into hear ears.There are 2 ways a woman HEARS about you
What YOU tell her and
What OTHER people tell her
First lets talk about how YOU manipulate a woman's hearing perceptions.When you comminicate with a woman your only going to tell her things that YOU want to know.Thru storytelling,suggestion,insinuation,similes and metaphors.These communications techniques will help you build a PERCEPTION of who you are instead of a FACT of who you are.When you use these techniques you will basically be creating a 'movie' inside her head.These techniques are EXTREMELY powerful and can touch a woman's emotions which is far more powerful than touching her intellect.
You must also be concerned with other people influencing her PERCEPTION of you.Eliminate negative comments and rumors of others by ISOLATING her from those people-if possible.
Create a buzz about yourself.
Word of mouth advertising in the marketing world is considered the end all be all of influencing customers-end of story.
You can sit with a woman and insinuate all kinds of things about yourself but when other people say good things about you thats the gold standard.
You can create a buzz about yourself by influencing the influencers-the people that influence HER!Thats why it pays to be nice to EVERYBODY you meet.To eliminate any bad 'press coverage'.
I am running out of time but I will leave you with one thought:
Bill Gates said "If we can have the perception,I can create the reality.With the combination of reality and perception nobody will ever beat us"
Bill Gates's understanding that PERCEPTION IS REALITY
is LITERALLY why he is the richest man in the world and why microsoft is one of THEE most successful corporations in the history of american business.
Understanding this principle can make you more successful with women than trying to get them with facts ever could.
Ill try finishing this post whenever I can but now I have to go.
THE EYES
If corporations like proctor and gamble can make billions of dollars a year by 'packaging' and 'branding' commodity items like detergent and toothpaste then you should be able to package and brand yourself to attract women.The guys on this board pretty much know how to do that:
Dress right
Workout
keep a clean haircut
The way you dress ('package yourself') should communicate who you are.It's NOT about dressing the way you like and then trying to impose your attraction on a woman.If you are trying to attract a proffesional type woman and you dress like a thug and figure you can 'will' a woman to like you it aint gonna happen.Now if you know that this proffessional woman LIKES thugs then your in business
Social Proof
If you are constantly seen with other women then that gives you social proof and we all know that women want men that are attractive to other women.Do these women have to be women that are girlfriends?No! Any woman will do.As long as your projecting the perception that that sister, cousin, or friend IS your lover.Your just strolling along in the mall with your female cousin looking for a birthday gift.The women who see you with this woman(your cousin) will have the PERCEPTION that you are with this woman and that you must be attractive and desirable.
PERCEPTION becomes REALITY!
Authority
How you dress and how you talk can give the PERCEPTION of being an alpha male(authority).I used to work security and it's mind boggling how women react to a man in uniform.Those same women don't even notice me without my uniform.That security uniform gave the PERCEPTION of alpha maleness.The same thing happens when I wear a suit.
PERCEPTION becomes REALITY!
Scarcity
If you are around a woman constantly she will begin to think that you have no life no friends and you dont have any other women in your life and worse she will think you are puting her on a pedastal.Okay maybe you don't have friends a life or anything to do.Does it matter?No!Give off the PERCEPTION that your busy.Call once a week or have her call you and rush her off the phone.Tell her you have this to do or that to do and let her know that your doing it with someone.Appear to have A LIFE.
PERCEPTION becomes REALITY!
The EARS
What women see of you is important but remember that women are much more turn on by what they hear than by what they see.Hearing is very powerful because a woman can only SEE you when she SEES you!But she can HEAR about you when your not even around.Your job as a 'marketer' is to eliminate any bad perceptions that she may hear about you and promote good perceptions that goes into hear ears.There are 2 ways a woman HEARS about you
What YOU tell her and
What OTHER people tell her
First lets talk about how YOU manipulate a woman's hearing perceptions.When you comminicate with a woman your only going to tell her things that YOU want to know.Thru storytelling,suggestion,insinuation,similes and metaphors.These communications techniques will help you build a PERCEPTION of who you are instead of a FACT of who you are.When you use these techniques you will basically be creating a 'movie' inside her head.These techniques are EXTREMELY powerful and can touch a woman's emotions which is far more powerful than touching her intellect.
You must also be concerned with other people influencing her PERCEPTION of you.Eliminate negative comments and rumors of others by ISOLATING her from those people-if possible.
Create a buzz about yourself.
Word of mouth advertising in the marketing world is considered the end all be all of influencing customers-end of story.
You can sit with a woman and insinuate all kinds of things about yourself but when other people say good things about you thats the gold standard.
You can create a buzz about yourself by influencing the influencers-the people that influence HER!Thats why it pays to be nice to EVERYBODY you meet.To eliminate any bad 'press coverage'.
I am running out of time but I will leave you with one thought:
Bill Gates said "If we can have the perception,I can create the reality.With the combination of reality and perception nobody will ever beat us"
Bill Gates's understanding that PERCEPTION IS REALITY
is LITERALLY why he is the richest man in the world and why microsoft is one of THEE most successful corporations in the history of american business.
Understanding this principle can make you more successful with women than trying to get them with facts ever could.
Ill try finishing this post whenever I can but now I have to go.