"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr Obvious AKA SKIP thinkis I am a fool to the game for dumping that ho

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Hey little Skip, did you enjoy kissing lips that just sucked another guy off? I am more ahead of the game than you ever will be. I still say you lied about banging 80 girls. I bet it was more like 8.

Keep kissing those nasty lips because I will dump that girl and move on. I banged her for 2 months straight. What was I supposed to do Skip? Make her my girlfriend?

How do those lips taste Mr Obvious? Let's hear some answers you can dish it but can you respond. I doubt it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Skip is married - he is no longer pimping!
 
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PSYCHO said:
Skip is married - he is no longer pimping!

Who cares. He called me out so he is paying the repurcussions. Being married doesn't mean he's not a liar and a fool.
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
Hey little Skip, did you enjoy kissing lips that just sucked another guy off? I am more ahead of the game than you ever will be. I still say you lied about banging 80 girls. I bet it was more like 8.

Keep kissing those nasty lips because I will dump that girl and move on. I banged her for 2 months straight. What was I supposed to do Skip? Make her my girlfriend?

How do those lips taste Mr Obvious? Let's hear some answers you can dish it but can you respond. I doubt it.

If you were a player and did not care about this woman, you would not have made over 500 posts in the last month on two different forums, ALL about her

a true player would bang the woman, and not need to constantly ask questions

this thread you made really came out of your ass though.........you made no points, you spewed some lies, and you made yourself look like an emotional BPD chick

and no, i don't think you are a fool for dumping that ho, I think you are a fool for emotionally obsessing over her for 2 months and not having sex with other women.
 
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If you were a player and did not care about this woman, you would not have made over 500 posts in the last month on two different forums, ALL about her

a true player would bang the woman, and not need to constantly ask questions

this thread you made really came out of your ass though.........you made no points, you spewed some lies, and you made yourself look like an emotional BPD chick

and no, i don't think you are a fool for dumping that ho, I think you are a fool for emotionally obsessing over her for 2 months and not having sex with other women.

I'm over her. I'm hardly obsessed. It took me 2 days of no contact to forget her and I have a new plate simmering and she is ten times better.

I should have been spinning plates so I didn't care about her. Lesson learned. But I still would have dumped her when I found out she is a tramp. She thought I was a chump and she could hide that fact from me but she couldn't.

It's not even her plate spinning that has me angry it's her lies to cover it all up. I think she probably told me 10 lies in 2 months.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vlad the 1mpaler said:
I'm over her. I'm hardly obsessed. It took me 2 days of no contact to forget her and I have a new plate simmering and she is ten times better.

I should have been spinning plates so I didn't care about her. Lesson learned. But I still would have dumped her when I found out she is a tramp. She thought I was a chump and she could hide that fact from me but she couldn't.

It's not even her plate spinning that has me angry it's her lies to cover it all up. I think she probably told me 10 lies in 2 months.

they all have the capacity to lie, this is why you always gotta have at least 3 of them at the same time that you are gaming, it will keep you from having stupid AFC thoughts

move on from this

and seriously, what was the point of starting this thread and shytting all over me with lies and made up incorrect assumptions?
 
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they all have the capacity to lie, this is why you always gotta have at least 3 of them at the same time that you are gaming, it will keep you from having stupid AFC thoughts

move on from this

and seriously, what was the point of starting this thread and shytting all over me with lies and made up incorrect assumptions?

You started one about me at the other place but I guess it got deleted. Pissed me off since I can't post anymore and defend myself.
 

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Yeah, one of you guys is going to have to cue me in one what this whole argument is about and why you guys made a new topic over this. Seems like you guys could just take this to PM and spare the community all of this nonsense.
 

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Wow they fight like real people!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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a true player would bang the woman, and not need to constantly ask questions
A true player would also learn to STFU and eject when he sees that someone doesn't want him around.

Take your crazy-ass AFC self out of here before you get banned again for the dozenth time. You know its going to happen.

I think you are a fool for emotionally obsessing over her for 2 months and not having sex with other women.
Get a hobby.
 

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A true player would also learn to STFU and eject when he sees that someone doesn't want him around.

Take your crazy-ass AFC self out of here before you get banned again for the dozenth time. You know its going to happen.



Get a hobby.

actually a true player takes what he wants, and does what he wants, despite what a bunch of jealous internet nerds want.
 

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actually a true player takes what he wants, and does what he wants, despite what a bunch of jealous internet nerds want.
I agree.

Vlad-grow the hell up
 

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Vlad your an emotional roller-coaster right now. You need to learn to keep your emotions in check no matter what. You should read 48 Laws of Power...it'll open your eyes up.

I know that more than anything you felt the need to let that crazy w-hore know that you weren't going to fall for her bs again. But wanna know what's 100x more powerful than letting them know how you feel??? DEAD SILENCE

Right when you realized that this byatch was iffy-iffy and fuvked in the head, you should've just dropped her. Never answered another text, never felt the need to explain everything to her, just walk away. THAT, would have drove her COMPLETELY INSANE and you would've had the opportunity to nut all over her face one last time before you kicked her to the curb for good.

What we were all telling you in the previous thread was to recognize what type of girl you were dealing with..... you let yourself get emotional for a chick who wasn't worth wiping your @ss over. Always stay as emotionally de-attached as you can from a situation no matter what. You do this by spinning other plates, hanging with your boys and generally making YOU your #1 priority.

Keep gaming and end this piss war..... who gives a fuvk what anyone says about you on the Internet........


PS: As much as you feel the need to tell Skip your pissed...he's trying to toughen you up so you don't do this to yourself again. Does he go about it in the wrong way??? Ehhh.... probably, but its not a big deal. Relax, chill and have fun.



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All the times I got emotional and chewed her out is when I was drinking. I acted solid for the first 2 months, like a DJ and she kept coming back twice a week. It's the last 2 weeks of the relationship when I had her all figured out and I kept getting mad and chewing her out.

I'm cutting back on the drinking. The saddest part is the only way I had a good time with this girl is when I was drinking heavily because I knew she is a trainwreck.

The most funny part of all of this is she was trying to play me from the beginning. Trying to suck me in, telling me she wants to get married and all that crap. this was after 2 months of knowing her. I guess she did manage to play me a little bit but nowhere even close to what she was trying to do.

Thank god I have been enlightened by these forums. Who knows what would have happened if I wasn't? I would have thought she is a beautiful princess and I'd be ring shopping.

As for the silent treatment, that is what I am going to do from now on. Last time we communicated, we were being cordial to each other but that was 4 days ago. She told me her other plate dumped her and she is depressed. She apologized for cheating on me. I told her it wasn't cheating, we are not exclusive.

Then I told her to come over so I can tap it again and she said "I might have to take you up on that offer...."

Haven't heard a peep from her since then. But I know it's coming....

Actually, I wouldnt be surprised if I never hear from her again. She knows I know what she is about so she will go try and play the next symp cuz it will never work on me. She had a symp engaged to her earlier this year and he was going to raise her kid. He walked out on her. Guess he finally figured it out too bad the fool took so long to do it. She is trying to find a new symp to take his place.

It's scary guys... chics these days can be evil as hell. Lets not even talk about the fact I hit it raw the whole time because she said she is on the pill. I wonder if she really was. I will never do that again.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cool cool, I think you should really try to push this from your thoughts now. Your body re-visits the emotions anchored to memories when they re-appear. Positive or negative. Nice tool for getting into a good state, deadly device of destruction when the anchor is hurt.

It's hard but, don't so much as even say her name. Step 1.
 

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She turned you into an afc because thats what you are...go away.
 
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She turned you into an afc because thats what you are...go away.
Why the hate? Seems like I'm getting hated on cuz I'm a white guy tapping a black girl and I have serious issues with her behavior. But like I have said ITS NOT BECAUSE SHE'S BLACK. So please move along it's not 1950 anymore.

What are you for throwing insults on sosuave on Saturday night? The answer is..............AFC!

Phoenix said:
Cool cool, I think you should really try to push this from your thoughts now. Your body re-visits the emotions anchored to memories when they re-appear. Positive or negative. Nice tool for getting into a good state, deadly device of destruction when the anchor is hurt.

It's hard but, don't so much as even say her name. Step 1.

She's trying to test me already.. texting wants to come over... I'm trying to resist but it's hard I'm going to break because I have no other plates. Just girls I'm talking to on the phone but haven't gotten anywhere yet.

That other guy dumped her so now she really needs me. But she lied so many times, and she would have dumped me for him. I don't know if this is forgivable but a part of me wants to say "screw it" and just bang her and stay unattached. Kind of like a "reset" button and just start over and do it the right way.
 

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actually a true player takes what he wants, and does what he wants, despite what a bunch of jealous internet nerds want.
You're not a player. You don't speak for one.
 
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You guys aren't going to believe this sh!t but here I go. I am dealing with the most psycho girl ever. I thought the girl I dealt with on NYE was bad, this girl takes the cake.

So she texted me tonight I texted her back for the hell of it. She said "I'm coming"

I know I went against all the advice by texting her, and I need to turn in my man card, but just listen to this amazing story.

I told her to text me when she is on the way. About 10 minutes later she texted me, said she's on the way. So I got ready for a girl to come over and just have a good time

An hour and a half passes, and I call her it goes to voice mail. Then she TEXTS me that she is with her brother at the gas station and some woman was raging drunk and the cops came in and is questioning everybody and she is held up.

I actually believed her story for a second. She kept texting me telling me she is fine she is with her brother. I asked her if she's still coming? No reply. I called her once no answer. I texted so see if she's fine, no reply.


Another hour passes, no reply so I went to bed. Then I thought about it and something just didn't seem right with her story.

In her text she told me the name and location of the gas station, and this was her mistake. I'm glad I am so observant and smart so I decided to test her story. I called up the gas station and asked if there were ANY incidents tonight and the woman said NO. The woman who answered the phone was there all night. I outsmarted this girl. She revealed just a tad too much information.

So the girl lied. She is probably with another guy right now and I don't know why she is doing this. So when I found out she lied to me (again) I have sent her some texts AND I left her a VM. In the VM I basically told her she is a joke and she can't play this guy, but nice try.

In the texts I told her to have a nice life and she is full of sh!t. I told her that the funny thing is I played HER ass the whole time because I always knew she was like this. i told her I never loved her I just pretended. I told her that money is no object to me so she can keep the money I spent on her and I'll throw her another $50 for free.

I'm sure she is getting pounded right now but it will be great when she sees those messages. I think her and the guy she was with were both reading my replies to her and laughing. I mean the replies that I sent her which showed I cared about her well being and that I believed her story. I don't think they have seen the new messages since I figured out what's going on.

Sometimes when you lay down to sleep and just start thinking, these things come to you. That is what happened with me tonight.

We'll see who gets the last laugh when she sees those messages. This b!tch is evil. This is what we are dealing with guys. Foreign is the way to go....

I think I can safely say this is my last urge to contact this woman lol. I'm glad it ended like this. What kind of woman is this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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