splinterkb
Master Don Juan
So I'm a pretty good looking Nice Guy. How do I solve this?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mr. Nice Guy
- Thread starter splinterkb
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
confidence... dont be a *****
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
no **** man. confidence is the number one thing. I can be a pretty big **** if i want to but i dont know
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
its very simple... act like you dont want it. blow girls off, be busy, dont call them back right away... girls love a guy who is a challenge to them. they want excitement, they want the chase. this is why nice guys get shut down 10 out of 10 times. you have to take risks, you have to do stuff out of the norm.splinterkb said:
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
see i dont get shut down though. i just think i could do that much better in my mackin category and maybe bang some hotter chicks
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.