"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mr New Guy.

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DatMackinBoi

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Wassup my fellow DJ's.. Been reading some of the stuff on the sight and I must say that it is very helpful and I think that its great what everyone is doing to try and improve themselves..



Newhoo.. I recently just moved to Washington State From An international country.. ( The Bahamas) I don't really know any girlss other than this one cool girl my dad made me meet lol. But thats beside the issue.. back in the bahamas i was getting girls left front right and center.. It was so easyy for me, but now that i am in a TOTAL different enviornment
(even the language is a bit different).. I cant help but feel a little intimidated about what America has to offer.. The girls are so different and much more prettier, everything is Different!!!!

I've been in Washington STATE for about 3 weeks now just adjusting and seeing how everything flows over here.. I will be attending high school here and alla that.




If anyone can suggest things to do please post!! Thanks my fellow DJ's

-DatBoi.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jeffthechef

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well pretty much everythign you need to knwo is in the bible..

but if you have specific questions feel free to ask em

and advice for hs..your first year is very important

i was an afc my freshman year...and it ruined many of my opportunities
so present yourself well, early on...and be open to meeting all kinds of people cause you never know who they mght really be
 
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Make a good first impression. First impressions are SO IMPORTANT when it comes to meeting new people and assimilating yourself into a new school or something.

That first day of school you should be acting like the most confident, happy, and coolest DJ ever, so that all the chicks can be saying at their lunch tables, "ooohh did you meet that new guy?!
 
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