"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr New Guy.

DatMackinBoi

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Wassup my fellow DJ's.. Been reading some of the stuff on the sight and I must say that it is very helpful and I think that its great what everyone is doing to try and improve themselves..



Newhoo.. I recently just moved to Washington State From An international country.. ( The Bahamas) I don't really know any girlss other than this one cool girl my dad made me meet lol. But thats beside the issue.. back in the bahamas i was getting girls left front right and center.. It was so easyy for me, but now that i am in a TOTAL different enviornment
(even the language is a bit different).. I cant help but feel a little intimidated about what America has to offer.. The girls are so different and much more prettier, everything is Different!!!!

I've been in Washington STATE for about 3 weeks now just adjusting and seeing how everything flows over here.. I will be attending high school here and alla that.




If anyone can suggest things to do please post!! Thanks my fellow DJ's

-DatBoi.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jeffthechef

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well pretty much everythign you need to knwo is in the bible..

but if you have specific questions feel free to ask em

and advice for hs..your first year is very important

i was an afc my freshman year...and it ruined many of my opportunities
so present yourself well, early on...and be open to meeting all kinds of people cause you never know who they mght really be
 

eaglez1177

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Make a good first impression. First impressions are SO IMPORTANT when it comes to meeting new people and assimilating yourself into a new school or something.

That first day of school you should be acting like the most confident, happy, and coolest DJ ever, so that all the chicks can be saying at their lunch tables, "ooohh did you meet that new guy?!
 
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