"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mr. cool guy

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theNEWDJ

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there is one kid in my school that is the absolute god of the school and everyone knows it. He is a senior, complete jock football player, every single chick loves him. If there is one person who is the man its him...

but im not friends with him, alot of my friends are though, so how do i meet him. I figure if i become accquainted with him my popularity will go straight up, and also i would learn about how to be a don juan.

so how do i meet a guy (sounds real gay)
he needs to like me enough to atleast add me to his party lists hmmmm
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JaguarMike

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Why stand in someone elses shadow? Why not stand up to him and be better than he is? It is possible, if you believe it so. Being the private in a generals world is no fun man. Work on it.
 
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Honestly who cares about your poularity? Your gonna look back and realise that you spent your time trying to be popular and forgot to have a good time. I bet that kid your tlaking about doesnt worry about staying the popular kid, he just has a good time and people flock to him.
 
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Ummm don't you got a super hott chick to take to prom? Who cares right now about the popular kid in school?
 
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Ian Gots Game

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Dont kiss a guy like thats @$$. My group of friends (mostly basketball and football players) all flock to this one guy (starting QB since soph yr.) I was good friends with him last year but this year we fought over a girl and now we HATE each other. Anyway, he likes people that just kiss his @$$ ALL the time. And I would never do that. It is better to be your own person and be a man about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You say he's a senior right? And since you're 17 I would guess you are probably a junior. That means in two months he'll be gone and nobody will care if you were acquainted with him. So what I would do is start acting better then him now so you have a good foundation for next year. That way you can be "mr. cool guy."
 
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theNEWDJ

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ya you guys are right - f that fool
im cooler then him
 
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There is alot you can learn from people that. Study him. Be careful not to become his bich.
 
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Don't become his b*tch, but don't resent him either. Personally, I'd just try to befriend the guy, become acquaintences with him. You can learn from him. And you'll get invited to some parties. If this guy really is the jock-god that you make him out to be, getting on his bad side would be very bad for your reputation.

I know people try to say that you shouldn't care for your reputation, but it's important, especially in a social network like HS. Having a bad-rep in high school can negatively affect your social life.

My advice is, if he's worth being acquainted with, go for it. Don't suck up to him like everyone else does, but odds are he has a big ego, so don't act like you are the king either.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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