"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok so today i made out with my girlfriend of one week for the first time, everything was going well, but i couldn't help myself from trying to get into her pants. she stopped me, and i tried again a few times. i should have just stopped right there. On the way home, she was really quiet.
so my question is: how do i let her know that I'm not just interested in sex? i really do care about her and really don't want to lose her

by the way, we're both in High School and she's a virgin
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have an idea... What if i make plans to go have dinner at her place and meet her parents?
also, we've only been officially dating for a week, but there has be some serious flirting/ sexual tension for a few months, so its not like we're strangers.
 
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Yogibear said:
I have an idea... What if i make plans to go have dinner at her place and meet her parents?
also, we've only been officially dating for a week, but there has be some serious flirting/ sexual tension for a few months, so its not like we're strangers.
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If you are seriously together, you two should be able to speak about ANY SUBJECT. Because its obv that she likes you and you like her, so please, do her and yourself a favor and talk about sex with her, because she might feel bad for what happened because she wasn't ready or something like that, also if u feel that u cant be in a relationship w/o sex, tell it to her, but don't "force" her to have sex with you. If that fails, u might wanna next her? Or wait when she is ready? Dno man its up to u
 
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Also, I had this one girl that told me after being together for a while "I dont wanna have sex with you unless you tell me that you won't dump me after u got (sex)" and she was also a virgin. Just tell her what you really think(look my last post), I dont know about that parents thing.. imo its too early to have serious dinner-talk with her parents.
 
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You didnt do anything wrong. You were going great.

Keep trying to get into her pants.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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