"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok so today i made out with my girlfriend of one week for the first time, everything was going well, but i couldn't help myself from trying to get into her pants. she stopped me, and i tried again a few times. i should have just stopped right there. On the way home, she was really quiet.
so my question is: how do i let her know that I'm not just interested in sex? i really do care about her and really don't want to lose her

by the way, we're both in High School and she's a virgin
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have an idea... What if i make plans to go have dinner at her place and meet her parents?
also, we've only been officially dating for a week, but there has be some serious flirting/ sexual tension for a few months, so its not like we're strangers.
 
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Yogibear said:
I have an idea... What if i make plans to go have dinner at her place and meet her parents?
also, we've only been officially dating for a week, but there has be some serious flirting/ sexual tension for a few months, so its not like we're strangers.
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If you are seriously together, you two should be able to speak about ANY SUBJECT. Because its obv that she likes you and you like her, so please, do her and yourself a favor and talk about sex with her, because she might feel bad for what happened because she wasn't ready or something like that, also if u feel that u cant be in a relationship w/o sex, tell it to her, but don't "force" her to have sex with you. If that fails, u might wanna next her? Or wait when she is ready? Dno man its up to u
 
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Also, I had this one girl that told me after being together for a while "I dont wanna have sex with you unless you tell me that you won't dump me after u got (sex)" and she was also a virgin. Just tell her what you really think(look my last post), I dont know about that parents thing.. imo its too early to have serious dinner-talk with her parents.
 
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You didnt do anything wrong. You were going great.

Keep trying to get into her pants.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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