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Moving too fast?

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ok so today i made out with my girlfriend of one week for the first time, everything was going well, but i couldn't help myself from trying to get into her pants. she stopped me, and i tried again a few times. i should have just stopped right there. On the way home, she was really quiet.
so my question is: how do i let her know that I'm not just interested in sex? i really do care about her and really don't want to lose her
 

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You asked her to be your girlfriend before you had ever made out with her? Sounds like you two are both new to the dating game. In that case yes, you are going too fast by trying to get into her pants on the first day you make out. But don't worry, showing that you have sexual desires is deffinately not a bad thing.
 
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Yogibear said:
ok so today i made out with my girlfriend of one week for the first time, everything was going well, but i couldn't help myself from trying to get into her pants. she stopped me, and i tried again a few times. i should have just stopped right there. On the way home, she was really quiet.
so my question is: how do i let her know that I'm not just interested in sex? i really do care about her and really don't want to lose her
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Heres the problem right here. Why the hell would you make this girl your gf if you've never even fvckin kissed her before!?

The reason why she acted the way she did was because shes probably very immature when it comes to guys, not to mention she hadnt even hooked up with you before today! Not only that, but come on man, if you've never hooked up with her before you cant just expect to get in her pants the first time you kiss her? So yes, you are absolutely moving too fast, but part of it is because you never got sexual with her before you two started going out.

Unfortunately, she probably has this in her head right now: "Wow this guy is only in it for the ass".

Now let me say this: DO NOT go all afc on her and start apologzing for what you did. That is a no-no. What you do instead is just give her a little bit of compliments (dont over do it), and just make it seem like you genuinely care about her. Idk how much simpler I can put it lol.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Heres the problem right here. Why the hell would you make this girl your gf if you've never even fvckin kissed her before!?

The reason why she acted the way she did was because shes probably very immature when it comes to guys, not to mention she hadnt even hooked up with you before today! Not only that, but come on man, if you've never hooked up with her before you cant just expect to get in her pants the first time you kiss her? So yes, you are absolutely moving too fast, but part of it is because you never got sexual with her before you two started going out.

Unfortunately, she probably has this in her head right now: "Wow this guy is only in it for the ass".

Now let me say this: DO NOT go all afc on her and start apologzing for what you did. That is a no-no. What you do instead is just give her a little bit of compliments (dont over do it), and just make it seem like you genuinely care about her. Idk how much simpler I can put it lol.
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we've only been officially dating for a week, but we've been flirting and kinoing for months, and i have kissed her before
 
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Yogibear said:
we've only been officially dating for a week, but we've been flirting and kinoing for months, and i have kissed her before
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Months = friends zone

Just saying ... maybe she made out with you but isn't willing to do more because she doesn't see you that way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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