"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Moving to a new office

evolvingnerd

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hi guys
i'll be moving to a new office for the next year starting next week
any tips?

most of the people there are apparently much older than me, and married :rolleyes:

but how should i go about things?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dukester

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look bud. i've been working w/ this company for 6 months. i am still the youngest guy. average age here is like 25, and then management people are older and married, but even some of the 25 year old guys are married.

just act normal, dont act mature, and maybe act a lil older than u normally are. dont try to impress people, and dont act like u know more than u really do. if you have questions, dont be afraid to ask them.

and if ya thinking about hitting on some chicks read company policies regarding sexual harassment.
 

ScrewIt

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wtf aare you moaning about? i've worked with this small company that's fvckin moved offices 2x in the past year. The last move was from the 10th fl to the 9th fl into a smaller office...cheapskate boss.

the average age of ppl in myh office is 26. with me the youngest there and my boss is 23 who married a smokin wife earlier this year.

just have your **** together and dont get out of your league, stay professional. I've been there for almost a year and my boss trusts me on projects i do or errands that i run. we have a good understanding...altho that cheapskate denied me of a raise when i requested it. back when i first started, he was always on my back to see that i was doing the work. now he barely bugs me about it. Without trust between your employer, you got nothing, hell you might even be closer to being fired.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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