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Moving to a new country

Packers2010

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hey guys.

i will be moving to a new country soon and was wondering what the best way to start a new social circle up would be.

best thing i can thin of now. is to join somewhere like. POF and just friend heaps of people on there.

it wont be hard for me to make friends over there as i will be Aussie and most girls will be welsh.

i just just get a group of friends going and take t from there. i don't really need any gf crap.

what do you guys think would be the best way of going about it.

also ( if i did go on POF i am so copying and pasting what ninja said. then putting up on my profile. no welsh girls i can't stand them lol)
 

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That's awesome.

I remember when you first started posting here about the various issues you were having, I said to myself "This guy just needs to move out of that small-a** little town he lives in."

I think the easiest way to make friends is to build your social life around any cool people you'll meet at work. So that's the easiest way. You can also look for sports or volunteering. Basically just evaluate your interests, and find ways to put yourself in the same room as like-minded people.
 

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Iceberg said:
That's awesome.

I remember when you first started posting here about the various issues you were having, I said to myself "This guy just needs to move out of that small-a** little town he lives in."

I think the easiest way to make friends is to build your social life around any cool people you'll meet at work. So that's the easiest way. You can also look for sports or volunteering. Basically just evaluate your interests, and find ways to put yourself in the same room as like-minded people.
my town isn't as small as you think it is. it has a big population. just nothing going on here.

think of it like this. perth is more of the capital city of a mining town. a few clubs and bar. a few nice beaches cos we are lucky and that's pretty much it.

when i move to wales. i can go to England also. since it's not THAT far. i mean 3 hour train ride and i am in Manchester. here i have to fly a plan for 6 hour or take a train for like 3 days to make it to Melbourne.

so yeah it's a great change. thanks also for the kind words. i will up date in my journal about whats going on so check it out.

link in my sig.
 
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