"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Moving Slowly

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I went to the grocery store yesterday, and going into the door I was behind this 80 something year old guy. Poor fellow was really moving slow and I had to slow my pace to a crawl so as not to run over him.

I was remembering all the DJ advice to make slow, deliberate movements like James Bond. So I thought "Wow, I bet this guy gets a lot of women".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko said:
I went to the grocery store yesterday, and going into the door I was behind this 80 something year old guy. Poor fellow was really moving slow and I had to slow my pace to a crawl so as not to run over him.

I was remembering all the DJ advice to make slow, deliberate movements like James Bond. So I thought "Wow, I bet this guy gets a lot of women".
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That was me. Sorry I held you up.
 
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zekko said:
I went to the grocery store yesterday, and going into the door I was behind this 80 something year old guy. Poor fellow was really moving slow and I had to slow my pace to a crawl so as not to run over him.

I was remembering all the DJ advice to make slow, deliberate movements like James Bond. So I thought "Wow, I bet this guy gets a lot of women".
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Maybe, you should slow down a bit?
 
zekko

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Boilermaker said:
Maybe, you should slow down a bit?
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Funny thing is, I thought I was moving slowly. But this guy must be part of the 10% elite, because he was on a whole different level.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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