"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Moving out

imaluvnit

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Iv'e been living with this woman for about 5 months, and slowly but surely finding out she's as crazy as my ex wife, Iv'e all been straight forward with her and told her I won't put up and don't have to put up with any bulls*%t. Any ideas on moving out without causing a lot of drama, I don't want to hurt her but she and her family are driving mr crazy. Any input is greatly appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julius_Seizeher

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imaluvnit said:
Iv'e been living with this woman for about 5 months, and slowly but surely finding out she's as crazy as my ex wife, Iv'e all been straight forward with her and told her I won't put up and don't have to put up with any bulls*%t. Any ideas on moving out without causing a lot of drama, I don't want to hurt her but she and her family are driving mr crazy. Any input is greatly appreciated.
Are you a dramatic guy? Just grab your sh!t and get out.

Take a couple minutes to evaluate the knowledge you have obtained from this experience, then forget it. GREATER THINGS LIE AHEAD OF YOU.
 

cavedweller

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Here is one way to play it:

1..Pack your sh1t and hit the door.
2..Expect some drama.
3..If she keep contacting you hook up with her just as a fvck buddy. (hit it once or twice a month until she moves on)

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