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Any articles on the main site about moving out of the "friend zone". Any articles will be appreciated and I will add rep points 4 u.
I think that this is something a lot of women do. In my impression, it's a manipulation thing. "I act jealous, pretend to act as though I'm interested, maybe even flirt, you start asking questions, about my interest (drama drama drama) maybe become interested in me, and then I shoot you down. Then I can say I shot you down, and you're another guy that I had to turn down because I'm so hot."rrrrr said:I've got a girl I'm friends with, she even moved but we keep in touch every few days on chat. I say anything remotely sexual and she's like "don't even go there." I know if I talked to her about more than friends, I'd get shot down, so I just have friendly conversations with her, yet whenever I say "i'm going out of town" or I'm going to this restaurant, her response is always "who are you going with?" or "who did you go with?" if I told her I ate at a nice restaurant. she knows I'm not in a relationshp but she always wants to know who i'm with and who they are. Once I said I'm chatting with another girl and she totally freaked out, calling me slut, etc. I'll talk about some other girl we know, and she'll always be like "you like her don't you?" Yet we're just friends. Her jealousy is about the only indicator i get from her, but it doesn't turn into anything real, and I doubt it ever will. If I said I met a girl and we have a real connection, that may be the only thing that ever motivates her.
Yeah, she was kinda quick to call us "friends" and it's a term she uses repeatedly, so she can say wha... we're just friends! Thanks. She's just someone to pass time with now.Mental said:I think that this is something a lot of women do. In my impression, it's a manipulation thing. "I act jealous, pretend to act as though I'm interested, maybe even flirt, you start asking questions, about my interest (drama drama drama) maybe become interested in me, and then I shoot you down. Then I can say I shot you down, and you're another guy that I had to turn down because I'm so hot."
I know a woman who's doing the same thing. She found out I was interested in someone, figured out who, and went into a jealous tyrade. And yet we're "just friends." I didn't fall for the drama. I still treat her like she's my annoying sister.
Don't think for one minute that she's interested. That's not an insult for you. Just realize that she probably does this to other "friends" so she can get "high" off of feeling attractive.