Ok so there is this girl that goes to a different school than me and recently got a new bf after breaking up with her old one like 3 weeks ago. Anyways, I was trying pretty hard, you know flirting and applying kino to her when we went to the movies with a group of friends. She seemed to really like it. Finally when i'm about to call her up and try to escalate she calls me and tells me that she goes out with this new guy. So do i have a sunshine girl on my hands? Or should i wait until they break up until i resume escalating?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Moving on, or holding on
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
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