Moving from text to phone calls

[XMinister]

This is very irritating, but women these days seem to love texting over any other form of communication. I'll send a few messages and then try to get them on the phone to set something up, but I've found it extremely difficult to get them to either pick up or call me.

How the f'ck do you guys who've had this experience get them on the phone? I deleted facebook so I can get away from this whole virtual bullshi't, but I hate this texting stuff.

 

[pdx1138]

"if you can't beat 'em.....join 'em"

 

[thelastmanonearth]

I have a technique where you turn it into photo messaging. If all they want to do is blab constantly just start sending random pictures to them. If they keep trying to chat you up write the response on a piece of paper and send it as a photo. Eventually it will be a game for them to try and think up a picture that you will comment on. Once she starts sending a bunch of selfie pics make fun of her, she will start trying to impress you with sexier pics and then you ask her to wear that on a date. When they start *****ing about anything ignore and and change the topic, don't even respond to complaining or touchy feely crap they spew.

 

[XMinister]

Yeah, but I'd like to get them off texting and on the phone. They run away at the idea of talking on the phone. I'm not looking to chat with them all day, but even to set up dates, I'd rather do it over a phone call instead of text.

Any time I mention calling them or telling them to call, they ignore it. When I call, they're "busy" or were "doing something".

 

[El Payaso]

Yeah, but I'd like to get them off texting and on the phone. They run away at the idea of talking on the phone. I'm not looking to chat with them all day, but even to set up dates, I'd rather do it over a phone call instead of text.

Any time I mention calling them or telling them to call, they ignore it. When I call, they're "busy" or were "doing something".

Something I have noticed among all my dates is the ones who picked up my phone call were the ones who ended up not flaking and were genuinely interested. The ones who didn't were just seeking attention or validation. I think phone calls are a good way to screen for interested girls but they aren't 100% fool proof.

 

[donking]

find a girl that likes to talk on the phone. prob solved.

 

[XMinister]

So you're saying it's not my fault? It's nothing that I'm really doing that's keeping them from talking on the phone?

Is it really just always the wrong girls?

 

[El Payaso]

So you're saying it's not my fault? It's nothing that I'm really doing that's keeping them from talking on the phone?

Is it really just always the wrong girls?

Most girls raised in the current generation are just used to texting, tweeting or whatever other 140 character limited millennial communication device they get into their hands. Actually talking on the phone is a concept that is alien to most of them. They will text all day with you back and forth but call them and they will feign business.

It's mostly only high interest women I've ever seen to pick up my calls. The rest are just typically playing games.