"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Moving from street into club

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Most guys start in clubs & then progress to PU on the street. I have the opposite problem: never went to clubs (don't like them) but am OK at doing street PU.

Went to a club w/some buddies last night. Horrible environment, crowded shoulder-to-shoulder, you can shout yourself hoarse & still not be heard, etc. My game fell apart--none of my skills cross over. But 99% of America somehow gets laid in these godawful places.

Could you guys point me to some articles by trustworthy authors re. club PU basics? I feel like I should learn this.

Ironic side note: street PUs, hated & feared by most, are in many ways EASIER than club PUs! Most girls at Starbuck's, the supermarket, or the laundromat are bored & lonely & looking to talk to someone. Just say, "Hey I really like your jacket. Where did you get that?" & you're in. In the club, these azzoles all line up to say "Hey I really like your jacket" one by one until the poor girl is ready to take the jacket off & whip the next guy to death with it. Nobody holds EC. I am clueless about who's with whom. Ugh.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So what you're saying is, wait till last call & see who's drunk & horny?
 
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