"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moving from Don Juan to Natural!!!

flippinfreak

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:woo:

Yeah, sooooo....

Is there even a difference?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bvbidd

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One is a normal person and one is a geek who chooses to stay a geek and name themself a geeky term even though they learned how not be one.

Yeah.. don't go around calling yourself a Don Juan. Or naturals are just guys who naturally have inner game.
 

flippinfreak

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Exactly, even the term PUA spun into the term Don Juan to me seems socially stunted.

I had inner game before I came here, I had women, money, and people still would joke about me being famous.

Is there a time when the term Don Juan should stop being used on this site?

"Stop calling yourself a DJ, your friends, family and, coworkers would think you were retarded"

Is this just another one of those internet cliches where people try to fit in, this is a really confusing issue inside of my head right now. Definitely something I want to use as a routine out in the real world if it could be solved:p
 

johnmich

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" A 'DJ' is someone successful in life ... or someone who is not good with women but is trying to change and improve himself etc "

I think it is like this so people who are members of this site are all DJ's
 

Tomatoes

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I see very few people on this site as "DJ's" About 90% are AFC's that want to be or are working on being a DJ.

Even fewer of those DJ's are Natural PUA's. Ofc all of these are just words....

Naturals and PUA are people who have PU to the best possible. They can get any girl they want.

Natural PUA
DJs
Wannabe DJs or DJs in training
AFCs

Thats how its ranked.....another pointless topic answered
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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playboy_supreme

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what does it matter? your only labeling your self. people in the real world dont care
 

L777

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Bvbidd said:
One is a normal person and one is a geek who chooses to stay a geek and name themself a geeky term even though they learned how not be one.

Yeah.. don't go around calling yourself a Don Juan. Or naturals are just guys who naturally have inner game.
errr no a don juan is someone who is similar to Don Juan in the poem by Byron, i.e successful, good with women etc.

Its not a 'term' as you so ignorantly put it.
 
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