"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moving from Don Juan to Natural!!!

flippinfreak

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:woo:

Yeah, sooooo....

Is there even a difference?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bvbidd

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One is a normal person and one is a geek who chooses to stay a geek and name themself a geeky term even though they learned how not be one.

Yeah.. don't go around calling yourself a Don Juan. Or naturals are just guys who naturally have inner game.
 

flippinfreak

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Exactly, even the term PUA spun into the term Don Juan to me seems socially stunted.

I had inner game before I came here, I had women, money, and people still would joke about me being famous.

Is there a time when the term Don Juan should stop being used on this site?

"Stop calling yourself a DJ, your friends, family and, coworkers would think you were retarded"

Is this just another one of those internet cliches where people try to fit in, this is a really confusing issue inside of my head right now. Definitely something I want to use as a routine out in the real world if it could be solved:p
 

johnmich

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" A 'DJ' is someone successful in life ... or someone who is not good with women but is trying to change and improve himself etc "

I think it is like this so people who are members of this site are all DJ's
 

Tomatoes

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I see very few people on this site as "DJ's" About 90% are AFC's that want to be or are working on being a DJ.

Even fewer of those DJ's are Natural PUA's. Ofc all of these are just words....

Naturals and PUA are people who have PU to the best possible. They can get any girl they want.

Natural PUA
DJs
Wannabe DJs or DJs in training
AFCs

Thats how its ranked.....another pointless topic answered
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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playboy_supreme

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what does it matter? your only labeling your self. people in the real world dont care
 

L777

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Bvbidd said:
One is a normal person and one is a geek who chooses to stay a geek and name themself a geeky term even though they learned how not be one.

Yeah.. don't go around calling yourself a Don Juan. Or naturals are just guys who naturally have inner game.
errr no a don juan is someone who is similar to Don Juan in the poem by Byron, i.e successful, good with women etc.

Its not a 'term' as you so ignorantly put it.
 
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