"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Breakfast Club
Gladiator
Matrix - all 3
Transformers
Saving Private Ryan
Black Hawk Down
Se7en
Red Dragon
Silence of the Lambs
Rounders
Stand By Me
Enemy at the Gates
Tears of the Sun
Braveheart
Band of Brothers series
Varsity Blues
Heat
Terminator 2
Shawshank Redemption - if you haven't seen that you should be banned
8mm
Harold and Kumar go to White Castle
The Girl Next Door
Road Trip
Rudy
Aliens
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele said:
you're crazy.

The Notebook and A Walk To Remember are the only bearable chick-flicks... they're actually a personal favorite. don't hate.
Notting Hill is another good one - girls love it and it's pretty funny, Hugh Grant's roommate is a riot. I'm still trying to figure out where he bought his shirts at.

I don't like chick-flicks either, but if I find one that is likeable, I'm sure to mention it other guys.
 

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Rounder said:
Notting Hill is another good one - girls love it and it's pretty funny, Hugh Grant's roommate is a riot.

This movie surprised me. I expected it to be junk but ended up enjoying it.


Cheers!
 

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My List.

Godfather 1 & 2

Goodfellas

This is Spinal Tap

A Christmas Story

Amadeus

Crimes and Misdemeanors

A Clockwork Orange

Barry Lyndon

Pride and Prejudice (BBC series 1995)

The Sound of Music

The Wizard of OZ

Band of Brothers (series)







Cheers!
 

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Fight Club, The Big Lebowski, Swingers, American History X, 300, Poolhall Junkies, Training Day
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Apartment
Double Indemnity
Pulp Fiction
Hellboy
Blade II
The Wild Bunch
Kagemusha
Akira Kurosawa's Dreams
Ran
Glengarry Glen Ross
Miller's Crossing (best gangster film bar none)
The Good, the bad and the ugly

and last, but certainly not least, New Wave Hookers 2. This is Savannah at her absolute hottest.
 

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I have a lot of movies I like but I haven't seen any of them more than five times. I've seen Pulp Fiction and Dangerous Liaisons three or four times each.
 

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Godfather
Godzilla, or any other Jp monster movie
Scarface
Jaws
Star Wars (A New Hope)
It's a Wonderful Life
Tombstone
The Good The Bad and The Ugly
Pulp Fiction
Mad Max
Caddyshack
High Plains Drifter
Airplane
Exorcist
 

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Pulp Fiction
Fight Club
The Matrix
Forrest Gump
Terminator 1 and 2
Predator
Commando
Falling Down
The Road Warrior
Robocop
Batman Begins
Trading Places
Equilibrium
Star Wars - 4&5&6
Die Hard
The 5th Element
Aliens
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Oh god I forgot about the Land Before Time, I remember owning the VHS to the first three movies, the first one was a masterpiece IMO not only in story, but in presentation. I must have watched it like 20 times as a kid. For a cartoon that came out in 1988, even by today's standards it is quite impressive, I'll never forget the opening sequence:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfNVhuyuWCQ&feature=related


Haha arent u glad i reminded you about that movie?!!?

man i just watched that clip it brought back so many memories omg. That movies actually really sad
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Movies I can watch over and over:

A christmas story
The Outsiders
Heavy Metal
Fifth element
Barbarella, queen of the galaxy
caveman
forrest gump
rivers edge
saving silverman
anything with Bill Murrey, or Chevy Chase
 

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Papillon (as in my screen name)
Platoon (first signature)
The Shawshank Redemption (second signature)
Se7en
The Usual Suspects
Stand by Me
Idiocracy
Office Space
Forest Gump
E.T
Field of Dreams
The Great Escape
Lord of the Flies
Falling Down
Crimson Tide
Boiler Room
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This thread is for movies you watched more than 5 times,
You have 10 absolute favorite movies ,did you watch all of them 5 times ?

few movies connect to us very well ,so much that we want to watch again
horaholic said:
dbl post,
 

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truthistruth said:
What are your favourite movies,
those few you have dvds and watch again and again

God Father
Fight Club
Star Wars (the original)
Alien, Aliens
Raiders of the Lost Ark
The Beast (great movie about Soviet-Afghanistan War)
Rapa Nui (Underrated flick about Easter Island)
The Last Valley (1970 film with Michael Caine and Omar Sharif. Takes place
during the Thirty Years' War. One of the most complex,
and meatiest scripts put to screen.)

PS... I had to laugh at a previous post... apparently Vin Diesel was in a movie
called "Chronicles of Rid(four asterisks)."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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