SgtSplacker
Master Don Juan
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Darths post was epic
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Movies that made a DJ tear up like a lil b1tch-boy.
- Thread starter Naughty Ninja
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
forest gump hands down
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
All Quiet on the Western Front
The Ending of The Butterfly Effect where the main character travels back in time and commits suicide.
The Ending of The Butterfly Effect where the main character travels back in time and commits suicide.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
j0504s
Senior Don Juan
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The matrix, When Neo swallows the red pill, b/c he was searching on so suave and read a post about it.
5string
Master Don Juan
Full Metal Jacket
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
CostaDeSol
Senior Don Juan
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Homeward Bound.
Its a movie for kids, but i was a kid when i first saw it
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107131/
Its a movie for kids, but i was a kid when i first saw it
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107131/
Naughty Ninja
Banned
Not a movie but Love's Divine by Seal. The video with the words is pretty powerful.
The dude chasing after the chick in the video looks EXACTLY like my cousin. lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iczaDcixBj4
The dude chasing after the chick in the video looks EXACTLY like my cousin. lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iczaDcixBj4
TheWolfMan
Don Juan
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Haven't really cried during a movie but some of the ones where I got a bit choked up over were Million Dollar Baby, Braveheart, Gladiator, The Road
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonDiscovery
Don Juan
the end of lord of the rings where frodo and gandalf leave middle earth...
also some others that have already been mentioned like click and forrest gump...damn
also some others that have already been mentioned like click and forrest gump...damn
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Curious case of benjamin buttons
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.