Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Movies that made a DJ tear up like a lil b1tch-boy.

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Thought this might be a different topic other than the normal trollololing BS and other nonsense.

What movie or movies have you seen that made you seriously have to restrain yourself from tearing up like a little b1tch ESPECIALLY if watching it with a chick or other people? :cry:

One that I can think of off the top of the head would be: Rudy. (I don't think there's too many dudes who didn't feel like that dude at a time in their life.)

If you've never seen that movie watch it.

Trains, Planes and Automobiles too. The part where Steve Martin is finally going home for Thanksgiving and is reminiscing in between his family and thoughts of him and John Candy's adventures and realizes somethings wrong, goes back and finds John Candy was actually homeless and his wife had died. That went from funny to pretty damn depressing to a good ending. Great movie.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Man up, pvssy

Hold me and tell me everythings going to be alright little camper.
 

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The anti-depressants have turned me into an emotional zombie, so no crying here. Sorry, try again.

Never really cried over a movie. Was in awe throughout "Traffic", though. **** was real.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A Japanese anime called Grave of the Fire Flies about a Japanese boy taking care of his younger sister after their parents die during the bombings during world war 2....one of the most touching movies i have ever seen even though it's animation....but it really is a masterpiece

Brave Heart was pretty touching at the end...there is a really good Korean war movie entitled Brotherhood of War...very strong movie emotionally and really good...much better than the US blockbuster war movie Saving Private Ryan
 

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The first rocky movie

At the end when he went the distance with Apollo creed and was screaming for Adrian, that's the only movie that made me act like I had something in my eye lol
 

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Must admit, I'm a ***** when it comes to soppy movies. I don't cry much at real life situations though.

Also I have no problem with crying at a film, scold me if you want but that would just show insecurity on your part.

Films:
Phenomenon
Up
And I feel ya on planes trains, my favourite John Hughes movie....those aren't pillows!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The scene where Will Smith and his son sleep on a bathroom floor in The Pursuit of Happiness
 
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zinc4 said:
A Japanese anime called Grave of the Fire Flies about a Japanese boy taking care of his younger sister after their parents die during the bombings during world war 2....one of the most touching movies i have ever seen even though it's animation....but it really is a masterpiece
they made me sit threw that at school. that's one sad film.

i don't think i cried threw a film i think i did once as a kid can't remember the title.

though i think 500 days of summer is pretty brutal. though true to life.
 
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Tinkerbell and I am not even kidding.
 

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The neverending story when it comes out that atreyu's horse didnt die in the river and of course when bastion flies with falcor.
 

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I've never been able to cry at a work of fiction, as much as I've wanted to sometimes.

The closest I've ever come is 2 years ago while re-watching the episode of Pokemon where Ash lets his Butterfree go into the wild and bang that hot pink Butterfree that it met. My eyes watered up, almost enough for a tear to roll down. Seriously, that sh1t was touching.

Also, I don't know why, but the movie Sucker Punch (the crazy fantasy girls in skirts wielding swords and guns one, not the boxing one) was pretty emotional for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Toy Story 3.

True story.
 

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Robyn923b said:
The scene where Will Smith and his son sleep on a bathroom in The Pursuit of Happiness
that was tough.

But, honestly movies hit me harder then real ****. There is probably quite a few for me.
 

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Robyn923b said:
The scene where Will Smith and his son sleep on a bathroom in The Pursuit of Happiness
thats my call too.
 

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Old Yeller made me tear up like a ***** and also Gladiator and Braveheart.
500 Days of Summer also struck a chord with me.
Also Aussie movies Phar Lap and Gallipoli.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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