"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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sherineo

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Hi I was just wondering if any amongst you have watched 9.5 Weeks starring Mickey Rourke & Kim Basinger...

The Character played by Mickey Rourke is that of a True and Natural Don Juan...

I have got this strange capability of internalizing Characters from Movies...May be I'm more visual than others...

Do you guys know any other movies which depict DonJuan kind of characters that I can watch to improve my game...

Sherineo
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've heard that the James Bond movies are excellent for this (I've only seen Casino Royale (the new one) myself, but I'm sure the older ones would be similar.
 

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Gattaca is the ultimate DJ movie.

It is all about overcoming limitations.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have watched all James bond movies...they do show a character which is all macho and masculine and all... but it's more like a setup...or rather fantasy...just like the toys they use in these movies...

Again I didn't quite find Daniell Craig quite DJlike in Casino Royale besides action stuff ...he was sort of can't-control-my-emotions type...whatsay??

I'd look for Gattaca and fight club though...
 

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Princess Leia: I love you!
Han Solo: I know.

ARrocket- Go rent some old James Bond (preferably Sean Connery) for Christs sake! Whats the matter with you?

Another wierd example is Ferris Beuller: Remember when he was racing back to his house past the sunbathing chicks, and a few seconds later, he slowly walks back to them all cool, and introduces himself? Smooth as hell!
 

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Woods ...

I have watched only Pierce Brosnan Stuff so may be yeah I can give sean Connery movies a try...:) thnx...

Here what I mean by internalizing by watching DonJuan behaviour is more or less like watching your dad when you were a kid and if he was an alpha male...and learning unconsciously...

Like the character of Jack Sparrow ... This character is a classic example of Mystery's Peacocking ... and the art of being different and seductive...being a bad boy and being a leader...in light way

Like most movies of Adam Sandler ....I have developed a great sense of humor and communication skills just by watching these movies...

One more thing that I have noticed is that when you really appreciate something you tend to exhibit the same behaviour patterns unconsciously.....
 

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And I forgot to mention Leonardo Di Caprio's Catch me If You can and Aviator..the childlike but seductive character played by leonardo...

I find these character more human than Don Juan Behaviour Pointer Post on So Suave...which you can appreciate but not successfully internalize...

sherineo
 

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woods said:
Princess Leia: I love you!
Han Solo: I know.
Haha I used to pull that one on my ex all the time...or "Yeah, I love me too."

I think Indiana Jones is a great example of a DJ...

WILLIE (Kate Capshaw): What are you supposed to be, a lion tamer?

INDY: I'm allowing you to tag along...so why don't you give your mouth a rest, okay doll?

or the scene in Raiders...

MARION: Don't talk that way about our baby (referring to the monkey clinging on her head)...he's got your looks.

INDY: ...and your brains...

Harrison Ford's just a badass...can't wait for the new Indiana Jones movie...suprised he doesn't break a hip though. lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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