"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tomorrow, i'm taking this chick out.
she's really interested in me and after dinner i was planning on renting a movie to watch at my place.
so wut movies do u suggest to get her "in the mood"?
+ my parents won't be home :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Raiders of the Lost Ark?

Rocky?

Seriously, just pick something you like.
 
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superbad lol

get a comedy bro.austin powers would be good aswell
 
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Crazy Asian said:
tomorrow, i'm taking this chick out.
she's really interested in me and after dinner i was planning on renting a movie to watch at my place.
so wut movies do u suggest to get her "in the mood"?
+ my parents won't be home :)
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What happens in vegas - a good movie, fun, romantic comedy, you can discuss some relationship issues between the characters and display your good charming understanding of relationships in general... you know... i think it'll be great.
 
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I'll have to go with a horror flick. Why. Because in my experience they have given me the best chances to escalate.
"Dont be scared" Put arm around her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What happens in vegas - a good movie, fun, romantic comedy, you can discuss some relationship issues between the characters and display your good charming understanding of relationships in general... you know... i think it'll be great.
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I hated that stupid movie
 
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What happens in vegas - a good movie, fun, romantic comedy, you can discuss some relationship issues between the characters and display your good charming understanding of relationships in general... you know... i think it'll be great.
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wtf? this is bullsh1t.

my recc: WATCH A PORNO

PUT IT IN AND BE LIKE "YOU WANT ANYTHING TO DRINK?"

AND SHE'LL BE LIKE OK AND IF NOT JUST BE LIKE, "I'M GONNA GO GRAB US SOME MUNCHIES AND MAKE SOME POPCORN."

THEN YOU LEAVE HER THERE ALONE WATCHING THE PORNO FOR LIKE 2-3 MINUTES AND YOU GO "MAKE THE FOOD" HEHE

THEN YOU COME BACK WITH THE DRINKS AND SIT DOWN LIKE "WTF?!?!?"

and you'll be like "ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY SOMETHING? I PUT IN FVCKIN MAMA MIA AND YOU SWAP IT OUT FOR PORN???"

"THEN YOU SAY, WHY WATCH WHEN WE CAN DO WHAT THEY'RE DOING,"

THEN YOU GOTTA ESCALATE MAN. KINO. ESCALATE. KINO MORE. REPEAT. THEN BANG HER
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desert Fox said:
wtf? this is bullsh1t.

my recc: WATCH A PORNO

PUT IT IN AND BE LIKE "YOU WANT ANYTHING TO DRINK?"

AND SHE'LL BE LIKE OK AND IF NOT JUST BE LIKE, "I'M GONNA GO GRAB US SOME MUNCHIES AND MAKE SOME POPCORN."

THEN YOU LEAVE HER THERE ALONE WATCHING THE PORNO FOR LIKE 2-3 MINUTES AND YOU GO "MAKE THE FOOD" HEHE

THEN YOU COME BACK WITH THE DRINKS AND SIT DOWN LIKE "WTF?!?!?"

and you'll be like "ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY SOMETHING? I PUT IN FVCKIN MAMA MIA AND YOU SWAP IT OUT FOR PORN???"

"THEN YOU SAY, WHY WATCH WHEN WE CAN DO WHAT THEY'RE DOING,"

THEN YOU GOTTA ESCALATE MAN. KINO. ESCALATE. KINO MORE. REPEAT. THEN BANG HER
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If only a 16 year old could buy pornos....

Watch Fight Club so she can drool over Brad Pitt and not you...
 
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A good movie. Guys make too much of an effort of selecting the "perfect" movie for a date but don't realize that the perfect movie is an overall perfect movie (even though nothing like that exists, just making a point). I just don't like it when guys rent out chick flicks just so the girl will like it; if anything, get a romance comedy that you'll like too. Hitch is a pretty good choice, it's actually my favorite romance comedy.
 
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Desert Fox said:
wtf? this is bullsh1t.

my recc: WATCH A PORNO

PUT IT IN AND BE LIKE "YOU WANT ANYTHING TO DRINK?"

AND SHE'LL BE LIKE OK AND IF NOT JUST BE LIKE, "I'M GONNA GO GRAB US SOME MUNCHIES AND MAKE SOME POPCORN."

THEN YOU LEAVE HER THERE ALONE WATCHING THE PORNO FOR LIKE 2-3 MINUTES AND YOU GO "MAKE THE FOOD" HEHE

THEN YOU COME BACK WITH THE DRINKS AND SIT DOWN LIKE "WTF?!?!?"

and you'll be like "ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY SOMETHING? I PUT IN FVCKIN MAMA MIA AND YOU SWAP IT OUT FOR PORN???"

"THEN YOU SAY, WHY WATCH WHEN WE CAN DO WHAT THEY'RE DOING,"

THEN YOU GOTTA ESCALATE MAN. KINO. ESCALATE. KINO MORE. REPEAT. THEN BANG HER
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LOL now thats something I havnt tried yet :)
 
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Crazy Asian said:
tomorrow, i'm taking this chick out.
she's really interested in me and after dinner i was planning on renting a movie to watch at my place.
so wut movies do u suggest to get her "in the mood"?
+ my parents won't be home :)
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Any movie is good but when she asks you if you can fill her drink up, tell her you can fill her mouth up.
 
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Honestly...the movie does not matter at all...if dinner goes perfectly well, by the time shes at your house, with your parents not home, if shes into you enough you will only watch 5 minutes and mack hard probably until the end of the movie...its good to have a funny one though I totally agree with that and Austin Powers sounds perfect. Its kinda all over the place so you dont need to pay much attention and theirs plenty of sexual jokes that you can play with yourself.

Good luck and eff that one time I watch the notebook with a ho
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man Bites Dog

It's a French film about a depraved serial killer being followed around by a college film crew. The scene where he talks about disposing of corpses is guaranteed to get her all hot and bothered.
 
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anything happened?
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yeah, search for my thread: always have a condom
 
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Little Manhattan

It's about a kid who lives in New York City and seemed to bring great discussion between me and the girl I watched it with.

Just speaking from experience.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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