When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
By the move I ment the old yawn and arm round shoulder lol the movie where going to see is 'Insiduos' which is supposed to be pretty scary. So I thought a bit of 'innocent' comforting wouldn't harm my chancesNorwegianDJ said:1 what's the move? I'm assuming its the claw. Don't ever doubt the claw. It works
2 her friends make the date less awkward for her, that's most likely why they're there. She might feel awkward being kissed (for the first time by u ) in front of them.
Advice? Try holding her hand almost from the get-go. preferably before the movie starts. Make it obvious what you want thru actions. Be direct. Hand over shoulder, holding hands, go for the kiss, all the simple stuff.
Don't wait to kiss her until the end of the night. This isn't hollywood.
1. Ehh, it works but I would say it's widely known to anybody who has watched television before and could come across as corny, but either way it's better than nothing. NOTHING WILL GET YOU NOWHERE (redundant, I know)Leeds_Lad_Dom said:I'm gunna keep it short and sweet. This friday i'm off to the movies with a hb8 (she invited me) and maybe(?) one or two of her friends i also know. A few questions:
1. Does 'the move' actually work?
2. How big a problem will said friends be?
3. Have you some good experiences at the movies? lol
oh..... it's THE CLAW!!! . It does if you do it right.Don't ever doubt the claw. It works
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.