"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Movie: Remember the Titans....listed as one of top 100 masculinity movies
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Panther is a 1995 cinematic adaptation of Melvin Van Peeble's novel Panther, produced and directed by Mario Van Peebles. The drama film portrays the Black Panther Party for Self-Defense, tracing the organization from its founding through its decline in a compressed timeframe. It was the first narrative feature-film to depict the Black Panther Party.
These all look good. I researched a bit of the Black Panthers when I looked up the movie Judas and the Black Messiah which I will see soon. I screenshotted these titles. Thank you King!
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You are welcome...That Youtube link is of the full Panther motion picture .
Yes.
I just finished it. I feel nauseous now. There's some history I didn't know. I think some of that was real footage.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Pack up the whole family and move. I think everyone should move to Canada.
I've only known peace my whole life and acceptance of all peoples(its a multicultural identity in Canada)I've lived in 3 provinces and travelled in 7.
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Nice...Canada is a Beautiful country with beautiful females...I think it's because the 4 seasons do great things for their skin!
Oh its breathtaking beauty here. Hurts to experience it, its so magical.
Experiencing 4 seasons provides just enough stimuli for females who we know need emotional rollercoasters.
I have never thought about the seasonal changes making skin better. That's interesting to think about.
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Which province are you in now?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Saskatchewan
It is prehistoric here.
The insects and birds have a dinosaur era vibe to them. How I think I know this is beyond me.
The air is clear and healthful and there is sunshine almost every day.
The wind is terrifying and moody and the storm clouds are the most dominant force here.
The wildlife is plentiful and precocious.
There is an unusual bond between all people here that I've only experienced in Nova Scotia.
There are profound opportunities for business here....the infrastructure is passable but needs improvement(no highway lights).... more washboard grid roads than paved roads.
There's no litter anywhere, just like the Caribbean country of Cuba with their respect for keeping their countryside litterfree.
I am addicted to the Vitamin D I get from the sunshine here and in winter, the cold is dry, not damp so its possible to become so acclimatised as to go out in -20 C° wearing carhart vest as coat.
I have difficulty answering that.
There's so many solitary hobbies I have that I know I sound cringe.
What about you?
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Covid and cold weather has slowed things down for me, so I don't get out as much as I'd like, and the dog is looking really bored as a result!
It's exciting to find new places to walk or get outside. I'm about to go do that rn.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.