“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Movie date help needed

Champthom

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Hey,
Its been some while since I've looked at the forum or read the site, but nevertheless, I actually was able to hook up, more or less, with a girl I met online who lives in my area. Shes about a 4 (we all have to start somewhere) and I can confirm this as I've been able to talk to her over the phone (only to ask her out, of course) and I've seen her over her live webcam and such. So, we're meeting on Wednsday at the mall near her (nice, public place in the event she turns out to be some kind of psychotic stalker) and she wants to go do a movie.

Shes indicated she wants to do a movie but says she doesn't care what to see. So, this is where I need help - do I do the Don Juan yet possible too jerk-like thing and go see the movie I actually wanna see? Or do I do the safe yet too-AFC thing and see a movie she would probably want to see yet I don't? Yes, I do realize that a movie isn't the best first date but I want her to know that I do indeed listen to her.

Well, thanks and I hope for some good advice.

-Jonathan Thomas
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

E-Z Rider

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First of all, what would be the type of date YOU would most enjoy, and that you think would let you get to know her the best?
 

Green Curse

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go see the damn movie you wanna see, she is just a start for you as you said so enjoy yourself plus this is the upside of planning the date you get to choose and as far as im concernd she gave up her right to choose when she said SHE DOESN'T CARE.

problem solved?
 

Abcd

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Agreed. If this girl is a 4, "I don't care" isn't code for "I'm testing you." It's code for "I will supplicate to your demands, and also you will find it easy to garner sex from me."
 
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