Hey,
Its been some while since I've looked at the forum or read the site, but nevertheless, I actually was able to hook up, more or less, with a girl I met online who lives in my area. Shes about a 4 (we all have to start somewhere) and I can confirm this as I've been able to talk to her over the phone (only to ask her out, of course) and I've seen her over her live webcam and such. So, we're meeting on Wednsday at the mall near her (nice, public place in the event she turns out to be some kind of psychotic stalker) and she wants to go do a movie.
Shes indicated she wants to do a movie but says she doesn't care what to see. So, this is where I need help - do I do the Don Juan yet possible too jerk-like thing and go see the movie I actually wanna see? Or do I do the safe yet too-AFC thing and see a movie she would probably want to see yet I don't? Yes, I do realize that a movie isn't the best first date but I want her to know that I do indeed listen to her.
Well, thanks and I hope for some good advice.
-Jonathan Thomas
Its been some while since I've looked at the forum or read the site, but nevertheless, I actually was able to hook up, more or less, with a girl I met online who lives in my area. Shes about a 4 (we all have to start somewhere) and I can confirm this as I've been able to talk to her over the phone (only to ask her out, of course) and I've seen her over her live webcam and such. So, we're meeting on Wednsday at the mall near her (nice, public place in the event she turns out to be some kind of psychotic stalker) and she wants to go do a movie.
Shes indicated she wants to do a movie but says she doesn't care what to see. So, this is where I need help - do I do the Don Juan yet possible too jerk-like thing and go see the movie I actually wanna see? Or do I do the safe yet too-AFC thing and see a movie she would probably want to see yet I don't? Yes, I do realize that a movie isn't the best first date but I want her to know that I do indeed listen to her.
Well, thanks and I hope for some good advice.
-Jonathan Thomas