"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Movie at my house

Oni

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So i'm in the process of getting this one girl. So far i showed her some interest, next i'm going to stop talking to her as much and get her curious. and if she does, i'm gonna ask her to watch movie at my house or maybe in the theater with me or something, still as a friend though. does that sound like a good idea?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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floydtheater07

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Sure, sounds good. That's what I do, and it works for me. But don't let her purely focus on the movie. She can watch a movie with anyone at anytime. Talk or something, so that she'll want to do it again.
 

Oni

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Yea i was thinking maybe i can talk with her. At this point we are still i guess "friends" and iw as planning to maybe improve our relation b4 asking her to the prom.
 

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damn. found out a friend of mine is asking her to the prom as well. even though i highly doubt she will accept since hes one of her "girlfriend," i still have some worries. I'm planning to ask her to coem to my house 2 days from now and move on from there. I just hope i can make it.
 

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lol. well no pregnants i promise =]. didn't get a chance to talk to her today, but thats good i guess because i dont want to give her too much attention. hopefully tomorow if i can get some alone time with her, ill ask her to the prom. if not, ill ask her to come watch a movie at my house, then set up a date, and ask her after the date. how does that sound
 

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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