"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Moveing out

SkillzthatKillz

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What is a good age to move out of your parents house?

And to those that have left, what age did you move out at?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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afc_2_dj

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I figure early 20's, I moved just before my 22nd birthday, basically as soon as I had a fixed job [i was studying full time before that]. My parents are great, but I wanted my own space, I moved into a little bachalor on the beachfront, it was fantastic!
 

Berlex

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When you learn how to drop the "e" and add "ing."
 

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I am 17, and in about 241 days when I turn 18 I am moving out. Pronto.

But I guess the ideal age is (for the US) is probibly 22-26 about the ages when you start settling down with a career.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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As soon as you can secure a regular source of income and creating a detailed budget that you are confident you can adhere to.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Berlex said:
When you learn how to drop the "e" and add "ing."
:crackup: Yeah, that extra "e" can be a b1tch to carry when you're moving.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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michaelhctam said:
I am 17, and in about 241 days when I turn 18 I am moving out. Pronto.

But I guess the ideal age is (for the US) is probibly 22-26 about the ages when you start settling down with a career.
Don't define your actions by age. The best that you'll ever be able to do is that of other people. If you're capable of doing it sooner, why wait?
 

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I moved out as soon as I left school and got a job. I was 18.

In hindsite it may have been better to have hung about for another year or two and gotten my **** together more.

I suggest you think about what you want out of life. If independance is number one priority then asap. If living with your parents (or whoever you live with) is causing you serious problems then asap. If you want to get out of your town then asap. Take action

But if your home life is okay or you wanna save some cash or you don't really know what you want to do then stick around until you are ready.

Basically this isn't the sort of issue where there is a standard answer. It is up to every individual. Just think about it and make sure it is the right thing for you.

JJ
 

SkillzthatKillz

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Thank you


Yeah I guess everyone is different, my home life isn’t to bad at the moment, I guess the best thing to do would be to save and do it properly.

To Berlex, sorry about the spelling can you ever forgive me? This site is all in good fun, relax bro, quit being such a nerd.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey man you got it easy. i'm moving from canada to the states with my unemployment checks keeping me alive so i can taste the american dream. i'll probably rent a ****roach infested dive and start from the bottom then over time move up the ladder. i like pushing the edge and getting out of my comfort zone. i grew up a spoiled rich kid and i've been in worse spots but thats the risks you have to take for going after a dream.
 

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when i pay off my parents house (my moms) :eek: :trouble: :mad: :box: :cuss: :down:

i'll be a 30 year old living at home.
 

Berlex

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SkillzthatKillz said:
Thank you


Yeah I guess everyone is different, my home life isn’t to bad at the moment, I guess the best thing to do would be to save and do it properly.

To Berlex, sorry about the spelling can you ever forgive me? This site is all in good fun, relax bro, quit being such a nerd.
Yeah, I was just messing. :rockon:
 
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