"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Moved on, Lost weight, Got better! Now what?

EvilSpirit22

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So as you all know that 4 months ago I got out of a ****ty relationship and after that I went No Contact with my ex. I lost a ****load of weight and I look quite great now. I feel great.

But what I want to know now is that how can I improve my game to get more girls? I do have a few girls interested in me but those are 5s and 6s .

So the things I wanna know:

1. What method of game should I use? Which works for you.

2. How should I approach girls? Online or Face to face

I don't wanna be in any relationships because I love my freedom but I would like to add a few girls into my life.

As far as my inner game is concerned I am at my best and I can approach any girl I want but I do want a procedure which would work the best. I can talk to them normally but I don't know how to maximize the results.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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salinechow

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I have an exercise that I respectfully challenge you to accept.

Go step by step through your questions and answer them out loud in your next post. This critical thinking will help sink in the real answers I bet.

Any questions that are really still left over go ahead and post them.
 

EvilSpirit22

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salinechow said:
I have an exercise that I respectfully challenge you to accept.

Go step by step through your questions and answer them out loud in your next post. This critical thinking will help sink in the real answers I bet.

Any questions that are really still left over go ahead and post them.

Seriously I was looking to approach girls on a daily basis and experiment different methods with them. So obviously online game is out of question but yeah if a guy can get laid through online game he can double his chances through face to face game.

I know I answered my questions myself but still I would like your opinions on the concept of game and what approach works the best for you
 

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Approach anywhere anytime. You just have to have the attitude that you really don't care what happens. Make eye contact, smile, if she smiles back, approach. Tell her she's hot, and you have to get to know her better. Get her number, or if you're getting strong IOI, just ask her out right there.

The key is that you really can not care if she shoots you down, it's her loss. ALSO, you CAN NOT hesitate... DON'T even think about it.... don't hesitate for one second, I just go, I don't even bother looking to see if she has a wedding or engagement ring on I have about a 20% success rate. Half are married... some will even try and hide thier ring hands from me... Hey... this is how women are man, if I learn they are married I'll back off. But I've had married women hook up with me later to find out they are taken.... One of the hazzards of not slowing down on your approach.

I try to do this at least once a day.... got a number this morning riding up the elevator this morning.

Chamber of Commerce events are great as well. Plenty of high quality professional women, there is always some launch party or networking event going on someplace. Next week is Marti Gras.... lot's of parties, Mexican Counsel has an art exhibit, A Green Business networking seminar...

I have a pretty full social calendar.
 

EvilSpirit22

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RangerMIke said:
Approach anywhere anytime. You just have to have the attitude that you really don't care what happens. Make eye contact, smile, if she smiles back, approach. Tell her she's hot, and you have to get to know her better. Get her number, or if you're getting strong IOI, just ask her out right there.

The key is that you really can not care if she shoots you down, it's her loss. ALSO, you CAN NOT hesitate... DON'T even think about it.... don't hesitate for one second, I just go, I don't even bother looking to see if she has a wedding or engagement ring on I have about a 20% success rate. Half are married... some will even try and hide thier ring hands from me... Hey... this is how women are man, if I learn they are married I'll back off. But I've had married women hook up with me later to find out they are taken.... One of the hazzards of not slowing down on your approach.

I try to do this at least once a day.... got a number this morning riding up the elevator this morning.

Chamber of Commerce events are great as well. Plenty of high quality professional women, there is always some launch party or networking event going on someplace. Next week is Marti Gras.... lot's of parties, Mexican Counsel has an art exhibit, A Green Business networking seminar...

I have a pretty full social calendar.



I'll try your method man! Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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