"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MOVE OUT FROM HOME CHALLENGE - March 2010

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dude04 said:
you sure they said go work instead of studying? don't sound like the american dream.
My family is like an asian family(study study)

Im really lazy, i dont study well, my dad also keeps reminding me that at my age he already lived and supported himself (soon to be 18)
They give me lots of sh!t.

If i moved out

positives
peace and quiet
independence (hoping it will also make me take life more seriosly)
more freedom (chosing what i want to do)
helps parent finaltialy (i waste a lot of money, i always wanna buy ****, like clothe, recently bought a 1k camera and an electric guitar,)

negatives
will probably have to play sports less
less going out
less clothing
less love (no family to hang with)
living with strangers (shared accom)
i will live on some sort of WELFARE
i dont really get why ur all "omg its less respectable"
im sure ill pay back all of it in 2 years of tax after i start working

but another thing that bugs me about moving out is that if i dont
i have 1 more year at school and if i go uni thats another 3. 4 years is a long time

but then if i dont like it, i cant go back (too humiliating, even thou ill be welcome to)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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