"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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MOVE OUT FROM HOME CHALLENGE - March 2010

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dude04 said:
you sure they said go work instead of studying? don't sound like the american dream.
My family is like an asian family(study study)

Im really lazy, i dont study well, my dad also keeps reminding me that at my age he already lived and supported himself (soon to be 18)
They give me lots of sh!t.

If i moved out

positives
peace and quiet
independence (hoping it will also make me take life more seriosly)
more freedom (chosing what i want to do)
helps parent finaltialy (i waste a lot of money, i always wanna buy ****, like clothe, recently bought a 1k camera and an electric guitar,)

negatives
will probably have to play sports less
less going out
less clothing
less love (no family to hang with)
living with strangers (shared accom)
i will live on some sort of WELFARE
i dont really get why ur all "omg its less respectable"
im sure ill pay back all of it in 2 years of tax after i start working

but another thing that bugs me about moving out is that if i dont
i have 1 more year at school and if i go uni thats another 3. 4 years is a long time

but then if i dont like it, i cant go back (too humiliating, even thou ill be welcome to)
 

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