"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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move on or revenge?

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donkeykong

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During one of my travels, I gave a talk and met many people who came to my discussion. I've kept in touch with a few and over time built a strong interest after she told me she was single.
when we reunited again, showered with kisses, said she'd do anything, etc and I believed her.

but immediately after I left..contact got reduced and I suspected a few things.
Today I went through her fb to check it and saw some guy who often liked her posts. went to his page and lots of pics of them, in fact they go far back since they go to school together.

It seems that this whole time she cheated on him with me. I'm not so much upset that she played two guys.. but more that I wasted money and time on her. I don't think either knows that I know. She never told me anything about this guy and I doubt he knows about me.
Should I simply just forget her and move on..
part of me is still raging and wants to confront her or get revenge before moving on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've found that revenge isn't worth it. Confrontation could lead her to denying it and end up making you look resentful and bitter.
I say chalk it up to the game, be glad you caught on and move on
 
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