"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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move on or revenge?

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donkeykong

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During one of my travels, I gave a talk and met many people who came to my discussion. I've kept in touch with a few and over time built a strong interest after she told me she was single.
when we reunited again, showered with kisses, said she'd do anything, etc and I believed her.

but immediately after I left..contact got reduced and I suspected a few things.
Today I went through her fb to check it and saw some guy who often liked her posts. went to his page and lots of pics of them, in fact they go far back since they go to school together.

It seems that this whole time she cheated on him with me. I'm not so much upset that she played two guys.. but more that I wasted money and time on her. I don't think either knows that I know. She never told me anything about this guy and I doubt he knows about me.
Should I simply just forget her and move on..
part of me is still raging and wants to confront her or get revenge before moving on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've found that revenge isn't worth it. Confrontation could lead her to denying it and end up making you look resentful and bitter.
I say chalk it up to the game, be glad you caught on and move on
 
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