"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Move back for GF???

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FiNs2BeCaUgHt

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Hey guys how is going? Well I will keep this brief.
The issue that I have is that im stuck with the decision of staying where I live or MOVE back so I can be with my GF.(I am 16 years old)
I can currently stay with my bro in dallas or... GO back to where I last lived, which is only 2 hours away.
Am I making a mistake by going back??
(I REALLY like this girl)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shaunuk

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well basically what you're planning to do is move house and to some extent live a new life for the sake of a girlfriend when you're 16. You're really YOUNG man, get out there and live, get girlfriends in your area. I think you'll realise you made a mistake, especially considering you're probably settled where you are.
 
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FiNs2BeCaUgHt

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Yeah shanuk, the thing is I want to move back.. but it took alot of planning for my bro to get me up here.. And I will never know if it could go any further
 
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shaunuk

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But you're 16 bud, there is no "the one", ESPECIALLY when you're 16 :)

if you were wanting to move back ANYWAY, then you wouldn't be asking would you? :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SinJester

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Are you moving back JUST for the girl? Ask yourself honestly. If you like it where you are apart from that and have good reason to be there, my honest opinion would be to let her go.
 
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Also, make your own descision, don't just listen to people on here :p
 
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