"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Motovation 101

DaVinci

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Motivation
MOTIVATION 101

"I have run out of ways to fail; now I can only succeed!!!" -Rx

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GET OUT OF THAT D*MN COMFORT ZONE

Hmmm.... So What do you want to remember???

But She's a Percfect Girl.... Right?

Whats this Suave DJ you want me to be???

Sooo.... How do I become this 'Don Juan' You talk of???

But I'm sooo Afraid of asking her out

Be STRONG and Don't halter

Sooo DJ Means a Jerk???

Hmmm... But Women are so Complex ...

A little Bathroom Reading

So What should I do now???

Take Action... But how???

Read This and be off on Your Don Juaning Ways...

Now that you've read that read this Rx....

1. Exercise and give yourself goals to meet every week.

2. Approach girls more often (even try Crash & Burn).

3. Write down 3 impressive things you do every day to remind yourself that you're the sh!t and any girl should be so fortunate to even have her presence known around you.

4. Make changes in your appearance that will attract (positive) attention. New haircut or new clothes works.

5. Smile more often.

6. Go on a diet.

7. Classical conditioning.

8. Limit masturbating.

9. Limit fantasizing about girls.

10. Stop watching pornography.

11. Never, ever boast about your sexual conquests.

12. Take dancing/martial arts lessons.

13. Never, ever allow envy to corrupt your perception of things.

14. Stop thinking about women all the time.

15. Stop reading what others brag about with women or learn to genuinely praise them without feelings of self-pity.

16. Eat more fruits.

17. Eat more vegetables.

18. Stop being selfish.

19. Become optimistic.

20. Stop touching your face (ACNE!).

21. Sing to music instead of listening to it.

22. Take a shower and sing.

23. Dance to music.

24. Learn to laugh at yourself.

25. Take insults with a grain of salt.

26. Instead of thinking "What If" all the time, DO IT instead sometmes.

27. Surround yourself with allies (friends, family) more often.

You'll be surprised to find all of these things will make you feel better. I didn't elaborate on any of these points because I felt it was unnecessary. If you don't understand the scientific background behind it, just do it anyways. All of the points are known ways to improve your confidence on a spiritual, emotional, physical and mental level. Do most of these and try to deny the power of improvement...

If anyone has any points to add to the list, please do so
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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8. Limit masturbating.
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