"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Motivational stuff

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i find it hard stay motivated for all this stuff

i mean broadly, in life, not just the field so to speak.

I get lazy and lose track of my goals.


Any motivational music or whatnot that would be useful for this that i could listen to each day? any help at all would be cool.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alex To - I Believe

Now I'm off to see the wizard
He who hold the key
To give me answers to the questions I need
He told me that I wasn't happy
about the way of my world
And I had to tend to say I agree

Then he told me that you got to
change your state of mind
You got to start at the beginning leave all behind
Take a new direction
Believe in your decision
And take it to the top and no one's gonna stop me

I feel a chill when it rain rain rains
And I just won't let it get to me
I shake me head and go my my my
See my face and know what I mean
Make some sense out of this whole mess
And I couldn't careless if it kills me
Give me room to express myself
Just as long as I believe in me

A pocket full of wishes and a world of dreams
And I never seem to be complete
I thought a woman could be all the angles for me
But it turn out to be all deceit
And you'll never never know for sure
If people ever mean what they say
When taking the chances you just have to realize
Life is a gamble if you're doing it in your way

I feel a chill when it rain rain rains
And I just won't let it get to me
I shake me head and go my my my
See my face and know what I mean
Make some sense out of this whole mess
And I couldn't careless if it kills me
Give me room to express myself
Just as long as I believe in me

Now I got a hold of my life and I found a real love
And I'm counting all the blessings I've got
All my dreams put into motion
And I'm about to take flight
Disregarding all the negative thoughts
Oh I'm feeling kinda good about my future thank
Now I'm just beginning to see
I took a new direction
Spin in to perfection
I took it to the top and nothing's gonna stop me

I feel a chill when it rain rain rains
And I just won't let it get to me
I shake me head and go my my my
See my face and know what I mean
Make some sense out of this whole mess
And I couldn't careless if it kills me
Give me room to express myself
Just as long as I believe in me
 
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Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you want my future forget my past,
If you wanna get with me better make it fast,
Now don't go wasting my precious time,
Get your act together we could be just fine

I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

What do you think about that now you know how I feel,
Say you can handle my love are you for real,
I won't be hasty, I'll give you a try
If you really bug me then I'll say goodbye.

Yo I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

So here's a story from A to Z, you wanna get with me
you gotta listen carefully,
We got Em in the place who likes it in your face,
we got G like MC who likes it on an
Easy V doesn't come for free, she's a real lady,
and as for me you'll see,
Slam your body down and wind it all around
Slam your body down and wind it all around.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta, you gotta, you gotta,
you gotta, you gotta, slam, slam, slam, slam
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down zigazig ah
If you wanna be my lover.

- Wannabe by Spice Girls


....I hope this helps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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travel to ethiopia, starve for a few weeks
should help you
 
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