"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Motivational stuff

Stud No1

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i find it hard stay motivated for all this stuff

i mean broadly, in life, not just the field so to speak.

I get lazy and lose track of my goals.


Any motivational music or whatnot that would be useful for this that i could listen to each day? any help at all would be cool.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alex To - I Believe

Now I'm off to see the wizard
He who hold the key
To give me answers to the questions I need
He told me that I wasn't happy
about the way of my world
And I had to tend to say I agree

Then he told me that you got to
change your state of mind
You got to start at the beginning leave all behind
Take a new direction
Believe in your decision
And take it to the top and no one's gonna stop me

I feel a chill when it rain rain rains
And I just won't let it get to me
I shake me head and go my my my
See my face and know what I mean
Make some sense out of this whole mess
And I couldn't careless if it kills me
Give me room to express myself
Just as long as I believe in me

A pocket full of wishes and a world of dreams
And I never seem to be complete
I thought a woman could be all the angles for me
But it turn out to be all deceit
And you'll never never know for sure
If people ever mean what they say
When taking the chances you just have to realize
Life is a gamble if you're doing it in your way

I feel a chill when it rain rain rains
And I just won't let it get to me
I shake me head and go my my my
See my face and know what I mean
Make some sense out of this whole mess
And I couldn't careless if it kills me
Give me room to express myself
Just as long as I believe in me

Now I got a hold of my life and I found a real love
And I'm counting all the blessings I've got
All my dreams put into motion
And I'm about to take flight
Disregarding all the negative thoughts
Oh I'm feeling kinda good about my future thank
Now I'm just beginning to see
I took a new direction
Spin in to perfection
I took it to the top and nothing's gonna stop me

I feel a chill when it rain rain rains
And I just won't let it get to me
I shake me head and go my my my
See my face and know what I mean
Make some sense out of this whole mess
And I couldn't careless if it kills me
Give me room to express myself
Just as long as I believe in me
 

Rebound Material

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Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you want my future forget my past,
If you wanna get with me better make it fast,
Now don't go wasting my precious time,
Get your act together we could be just fine


I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

What do you think about that now you know how I feel,
Say you can handle my love are you for real,
I won't be hasty, I'll give you a try
If you really bug me then I'll say goodbye.

Yo I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

So here's a story from A to Z, you wanna get with me
you gotta listen carefully,
We got Em in the place who likes it in your face,
we got G like MC who likes it on an
Easy V doesn't come for free, she's a real lady,
and as for me you'll see,
Slam your body down and wind it all around
Slam your body down and wind it all around.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta, you gotta, you gotta,
you gotta, you gotta, slam, slam, slam, slam
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down zigazig ah
If you wanna be my lover.

- Wannabe by Spice Girls


....I hope this helps.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jcap

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travel to ethiopia, starve for a few weeks
should help you
 
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