"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Motivational songs

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I dont know about you guys, but I have a few songs on my ipod that really get me in the sarging mood everytime I listen to them.

I have found them to be of great help when motivating my self before I hit the bar/club.

Infact I actually have them in a playlist, and it is the playlist I was listening to while I was reading all the pickup literature I have read. Now I have subconsciously associated the songs the material.

Has anyone else experienced a similar thing?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Le Parisien

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Yeah when I listen to songs by R.Kelly, Notorious BIG, 50Cent, The Game and so on that baiscally tell you all women are b*tches that are only worth sucking your d***, it gets me in the mood...
:D

I don't take that mysoginistic bullsh*t at face value, it just reminds me so much of my weekly clubbing experiences when I was in the US. Plus better this than some "you complete me, I love you and yada yada" emo stuff.
:eek:

Oh and Sean Paul is good.
Just gimme the gees an we be clubbin yow.
Gal a make wi please and we be thuggin' now.
Sippin hennesy an we'll be bubblin yow.
Set we mind at ease we got to take it slow.

:up:
 

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Originally posted by Le Parisien

Oh and Sean Paul is good.
Just gimme the gees an we be clubbin yow.
Gal a make wi please and we be thuggin' now.
Sippin hennesy an we'll be bubblin yow.
Set we mind at ease we got to take it slow.

:up:
English anyone?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Le Parisien

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Originally posted by Jizz
English anyone?
Come on man, stop being a smart azz.
The guy's from Jamaica, what do you expect?

Even me, some chinese frenchie can basically understand what he means...
:rolleyes:

On the other hand, if you are from a non-English speaking country and only learned english at school as some foreign langauge, I would understand.:)

For the song, it's "we be burnin", a pretty hot song right now in the western countries.
Check here: http://www.contactmusic.com/new/home.nsf/webpages/seanpaulx06x09x05
 

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
'eye of the tiger'
'Rocky' theme song
:crackup:

Dude, you serious?

I usually listen to the Rocky songs when I'm at the gym.
 

reyalp

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i find Bobby Darin - Mack The Knife to be very motivational.

also

james brown - i feel good
sinatra - i did it my way
ac/dc - night prowler
ac/dc - stiff upper lip
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hmmm... I many listen to rap/hiphop & reggae now I listen to some rock but not as much as a few years ago..

The Roots- I Don't Care
G-UNIT - On Fire
Sean Paul - Shake that thing
Xzibit- Front 2 Back
50 cent and Mobb Deep Outta Control
311- All Mixed up/ Beautiful Disaster
Knocturnal- The Way I am
and some ziggy marley to mellow out with.
 

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anything that gets my energy up.... screaming Lincoln Park songs... or Eminem... or anything with a lot of energy in the music gets my energy up, and makes me crazy.
 

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
Come on man, stop being a smart azz.
The guy's from Jamaica, what do you expect?

Even me, some chinese frenchie can basically understand what he means...
:rolleyes:

On the other hand, if you are from a non-English speaking country and only learned english at school as some foreign langauge, I would understand.:)

For the song, it's "we be burnin", a pretty hot song right now in the western countries.
Check here: http://www.contactmusic.com/new/home.nsf/webpages/seanpaulx06x09x05
Im gonna attempt a translation, if anyone can fill in the blanks do help!

Originally posted by Le Parisien

Oh and Sean Paul is good.
Just gimme the gees an we be clubbin yow.
Gal a make wi please and we be thuggin' now.
Sippin hennesy an we'll be bubblin yow.
Set we mind at ease we got to take it slow.

:up:
Just give me the gees(anyone?) and we will be clubbing yow(anyone?)

Gal a make wi please and we be thuggin' now. (No idea, anyone?)

Sipping hennesy(im guessing a beer of some sort) and we will be bubbling yow(once again anyone?)

Set your mind at ease we have got to take it slow

did i do well?
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
I like hardcoe french rap it motivates me.
Also some USA stuff doesthat too.
http://www.frenchrap.de/mixtapes

I went to: www.frenchcrap.de/sh!ttapes but all I found were white guys wanting to be gangsta rappers with bad teeth and hairy chicks singing about the joys of smoking unfiltered cigarettes?

Did I go to the wrong place or are the just all the same anyway?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Just give me the gees(anyone?) and we will be clubbing yow(anyone?)
gees is proably Keys or kilos the measurement for pot and other drugs

clubbing is going to a club duh! yow= yo'

hennesse is a liquor

Bubblin'= Another pot reference for using a bubbler a cross between a bowl and a bong
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys don't forget about 2pac

MOB - Money Over B!t*hes ( I love this song and it's true )

Also Lil Wayne and Paul Wall
 

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I forgot

Bun B, Three 6 Mafia, Eminem and D12

Who needs a B!t*h (by Bun B )
Dancing on a Pole ( by Three 6 Mafia )
Superman ( by Eminem )
I'll Be Damned ( by D12)
 

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you're the best around-Esposito from Karate Kid moive
 

i am me

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eminem-superman

You want what you can't have,
Ooh girl that's too damn bad,
Don't touch what you can't grab,
End up with two back hands,
Put Anthrax on a Tampax and slap you till you can't stand,
Girl you just blew your chance,
Don't mean to ruin your plans,
i do know one thing tho...
b1tches, they come they go
saturday thru sunday, monday
monday thru sunday yo
maybe ill love u one day
maybe well someday grow
til then just sit ur drunk ass on that fukin runway ho

chyea:cool:

if u want alotta pimp music, listen to "too short". jus about any of his songs haha

EDIT: one more that i remembered

jay z- big pimpin

you know i
thug em, fuk em, love em, leave em
cus i dont fukin need em....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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