"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Motivational Quotes

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Instead of reading everyones individual quotes I thought we should group them all together because It was through these quotes that got me to where I am today. I remind myself why i do the things i do and why i HAVE to do them. I'll start off...just add your own.

"I rather live 50 yrs like a tiger than, 100 yrs like a chicken!"
"The best revenge is massive success"
"I don't wanna die without scars"
"Procrastination is Masturbation, In the end ur only fvckin yourself'"
"The secret to getting ahead is getting started"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I created a post like this a couple months ago. Had a handful of good quotes added. search if your interested
 

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habdragon08 said:
"in order o live, you must be willing to die"

- some poker player
LOL @ poker player facing death.

Here's another poker quote that I like:

"You should play the game of life like poker; you may not always have the nuts, but you should always have the balls."

And the simplest one that I say all the time to myself:

"People become what they think about."
 

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I read one once from somebody on this site, may have been the dj bible.

"This is my life and its ending one minute at a time."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It was PuertoRican_Lover's, whose genius I admire greatly, who stated, "Say 'No' to loving hos - it is the only love that eventually will instill hate!!"
 

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"If you aint fcukin her, YOU'RE HER GAY FRIEND!"

- I dunno

yea...that quote scares the sh!t out of me.....
 

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"Better to ask for forgiveness than permission"

Actually, I heard this in the movie 'Eragon'. It stuck out to me.
 

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look at my signature ok bros
 

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mine is:
if she drops you in the mud, get right back up and out there and be with a different girl in a week.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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all the poker quotes reminded me of my favirote.. not really motivational but ohwell.


"In the poker game of life, Woman are the fvcking rake!!!" - edward norton (rounders)
 

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"Don't tell your God how big your problems are, tell your problems how big your God is."
"I hated every minute of training, but I said, "don't quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion."
"Scar tissue is stronger than regular tissue. Realize the strength, move on.”
"If you think you can do a thing, or you can't. You are right"

“The average is the borderline that keeps mere
men in their place. Those who step over the line are heroes by the very
act. Go.”
 

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This ones been motivating me through uni (part of it is in my sig).

"You want to take the easy way out because you are scared. And you're scared because if you try and fail then there is only you to blame. Life is scary, get used to it. There are no magical fixes, it's all up to you. So get up off your keyster and get out of here and go start doing the work. Nothing in this world that's worth having comes easy". From Scrubs!
 

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"Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking." - William B. Sprague

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

"The secret of success in life is for a man to be ready for his opportunity when it comes." - Earl of Beaconsfield

"Try not to become a man of success but a man of value." - Albert Einstein
 

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"Take a risk, Take a chance... You're going to wondering in twenty years.. Why did'nt I do something exciting with my life?"




You live once guys, that is all there is too it. And I like this jimmy buffett part of the pasculda run song.

" Time to see the world, Time to kiss a girl. It's time to see the wild meridian. Grab a bag and take a chance"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"i can accept failure. Every body fails sometime, but i can't accept not trying."- Micheal Jordan
"Excellence is not an act but a habit, you are what you repeatedly do."-
Shaquille O'Neal

-"A journey of a thousand miles starts with just a single step"
-"Yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come"
-"Lived life today as if there were no tomorrow"
-"you cant be afraid all you life"
-"The obstacles of the past may be the gate to a new beginning"
-"i know i cant change over night but i'll have to start somewhere"
-"Dont be too patient"
-"Everybody deserves somebody"
-"When "she" arrives, are you ready to accept her?"
-"You're the man, she needs you more than you need her"
-"Learn to love yourself before you love others"
-"Used you head"

i havnt poseted here for a while and this is all i got for you guys out there...

the linked that mpimpin is talking about is here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=113372
 

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Well, I'll give you some of my "relationship quotes," (and yes, these are my original quotes)

1. Men love women like Kobe loves the game, and women love men like Tiger loves the game. See, Kobe just wants the ball, and wants to go out and hit everything. Tiger, while he COULD hit everything, focuses on the one that would score him the most "points." :D

2. Women fvck men because men are the only creatures alive that possess a power, to take one to a different place. It's the man that uses his mind, imagination, and inner sexual power to the fullest effect, that will be the man not only dancing with all the chicks in the bar, but the one also you happens to be screwing all the chicks. And most times, other guys would not understand this.

3. Women are like my Business Accounts. I draw them in with value that they can't receive anywhere else, I maintain them with extra value that they didn't expect, and I keep them for the long haul when I continue my value add-ons.
 

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"Build it and they will come." Good for exercising, lifting and confidence.
 

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See my sig. its from Dr. Seuss (if that wan't obvious) It might be from a children's book but it's a damn good one, I think.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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