"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Motivational event in my area

GruntCardone

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Just wanted to get your guys input on something.

My favorite motivational speaker is doing a summit in my area next month. Been listening to this guy for years from my dirty couch.

It's about $1,997 just to get in the door, but it's a 3 day stay in a hotel and includes breakfast and a VIP meet and greet after, including some pics with some Instagram models. They have every half hour down to a tee on the brochure. Some of the stuff seems really weird though, a clapping exercise at 6:30 PM as a practice in neuro-linguistic programming.

He does a little bit of everything...PUA, money, philosophy, etc.

A lot of people say these are just glorified sales pitches for other products, but I've been dying to meet this dude.

The website says there are only 2 seats left so I need to hurry.

Would I be a sucker to go to this thing?

Discuss.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Misterchaos

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Depends...will you have enough left over to spend on condoms for when you two get some private time? If so, go for it...nothing to lose.
 

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I've paid about $1,997 dollars and went to a well known motivational speakers seminar dressed in a power suit and got to clap, bark like an alpha dog, yelling: "I love myself!" with a group of other all-stars that I've become close brothers with.

Go for it OP. IMO it was worth every penny.
 

GruntCardone

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I've paid about $1,997 dollars and went to a well known motivational speakers seminar dressed in a power suit and got to clap, bark like an alpha dog, yelling: "I love myself!" with a group of other all-stars that I've become close brothers with.

Go for it OP. IMO it was worth every penny.
Did you actually get to go on stage? Did you take selfies with Instagram models? PICS OR IT DIDN'T HAPPEN!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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