"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Motivation

Wai

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Imagine that every day you woke up, somebody had put 86400 dollars in your bank account, and you didn't know who... Every single morning you would accually have the opportunity to use all those money. But one catch.. Every night the unused money would be erased, so you wouldn't be able to save any of them, and you didn't know when those money would stop flowing in.

What would you do? Would you sit at home and do nothing? Of course not! You would spend them as a crazy pig on LSD!

But then think.. Every day, you ARE getting 86400.. Not dollars, but seconds.. Every second is worth alot.. You get 86400 seconds to do whatever you want, and you never know when's your last day on earth.. So use them well!

If you want to know the worth of:

1 second; ask a man got in a car-accident because of his speed.
1 hour; ask a woman who has waited for her boyfriend who's late.
1 day; ask a brand new dad!
1 week; ask a person who missed his plane.
1 month; ask someone who's waiting for his paycheck.
1 year; ask a student who failed an exam.

Your time is precious.. Don't waste any time because you think you've got more than enough.. You're not getting younger..
Use your time to do what you want to do! Be a better man!

Wai
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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