"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Motivation to go to the mall?

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I need some kind of motivation to go to the mall. I already have chicks who I'm friends with at school and I figure what's the point of going to the mall when I can wait till school to move things along with those girls that are my friends. I just need some motivation to go to the mall instead of just waiting till Tuesday(School is cancelled Monday for some stupid reason) to approach girls at school. So yeah, would it really be worth it to go to the mall today?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The practice won't hurt you, and it never hurts to have options, that way you don't get hooked on one girl from school.
 
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ElStud said:
I need some kind of motivation to go to the mall. I already have chicks who I'm friends with at school and I figure what's the point of going to the mall when I can wait till school to move things along with those girls that are my friends. I just need some motivation to go to the mall instead of just waiting till Tuesday(School is cancelled Monday for some stupid reason) to approach girls at school. So yeah, would it really be worth it to go to the mall today?
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This is one of the major problems you have in terms of improving your game.

You see? You don't see it as something FUN. You see it as more of a chore.

Why don't you take some mates out with you for once?
 
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Lust said:
This is one of the major problems you have in terms of improving your game.

You see? You don't see it as something FUN. You see it as more of a chore.

Why don't you take some mates out with you for once?
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Well let's put it this way, the mates I do have the numbers of always, let's say, make excuses. Like I had these two friends from track who I was suppose to go see Spiderman 3 with and after all the drama, neither of them could go because they both made excuses. Infact the only time we ever "really" chilled outside of school was when he had a party at his house. The other mates I have, I don't see out of school. Then there's my cousin, but he thinks approaching girls at the mall is lame.
 
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