"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Motivation to go to the mall?

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I need some kind of motivation to go to the mall. I already have chicks who I'm friends with at school and I figure what's the point of going to the mall when I can wait till school to move things along with those girls that are my friends. I just need some motivation to go to the mall instead of just waiting till Tuesday(School is cancelled Monday for some stupid reason) to approach girls at school. So yeah, would it really be worth it to go to the mall today?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The practice won't hurt you, and it never hurts to have options, that way you don't get hooked on one girl from school.
 
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ElStud said:
I need some kind of motivation to go to the mall. I already have chicks who I'm friends with at school and I figure what's the point of going to the mall when I can wait till school to move things along with those girls that are my friends. I just need some motivation to go to the mall instead of just waiting till Tuesday(School is cancelled Monday for some stupid reason) to approach girls at school. So yeah, would it really be worth it to go to the mall today?
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This is one of the major problems you have in terms of improving your game.

You see? You don't see it as something FUN. You see it as more of a chore.

Why don't you take some mates out with you for once?
 
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Lust said:
This is one of the major problems you have in terms of improving your game.

You see? You don't see it as something FUN. You see it as more of a chore.

Why don't you take some mates out with you for once?
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Well let's put it this way, the mates I do have the numbers of always, let's say, make excuses. Like I had these two friends from track who I was suppose to go see Spiderman 3 with and after all the drama, neither of them could go because they both made excuses. Infact the only time we ever "really" chilled outside of school was when he had a party at his house. The other mates I have, I don't see out of school. Then there's my cousin, but he thinks approaching girls at the mall is lame.
 
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