"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Motivation challenge for all DJs - Get 30 numbers.

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Ok , so i decided in the next 30 days, i want to get 30 numbers. I called it motivation challenge because if we all do it, there is motivation , whereas if it is just me then it is kinda ****.

so in the next month you will make 30 approaches and get 30 numbers (if youre a badass), or you will make 50 and get 30 numbers, either way, just make sure you get 30, it is your top priority. 29 is not enough, you must approach that extra girl in order for the challenge to be completed.

ADVANTAGES OF THIS :

At the end of these 30 days , you will be a master of getting girls numbers, one after the other, you will start to realise how easy it is, and how much of a big deal you made of it. You will improve your approach anxiety and conversation skills and people skills. You can also try out new techniques if **** starts to get boring .

Also best advantage of all, you definitely wont put any girl on any pedestal because you will be going on so many dates u wont give a **** if one girl decides not to come , because you have 2 more to go to on the same day (hopefully).



I will post techniques here on how to ALWAYS get a girls number, psychologically proven by the Badass known as Joshua Pellicer.

comment if youre partaking and if you need any help on your progress.

thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ChicksDigTheLongBall said:
Good idea, need some motivation. I'm in.
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thats great man , make sure to post some progress and if you need any help i will give you all ive got to make sure youre getting the pvssy you deserve.
 
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I have found that getting a girls number is quite easy. Getting her to go on a date without flaking is the hard part.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any jackass can get a girl's number. It's like getting Halloween candy.

Numbers are not an IOI. The only IOI's are sex and she says yes to seeing you, and she actually follows through.

Case closed.
 
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nismo-4 said:
Any jackass can get a girl's number. It's like getting Halloween candy.

Numbers are not an IOI. The only IOI's are sex and she says yes to seeing you, and she actually follows through.

Case closed.
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Lets be real here.

even sex these days to women isn't an IOI.

the seduction community is to old school for its own good. Just because you bang out a girl doesn't mean she's yours until you don't want her anymore. women like sex just as much as men and aren't afraid to fess up to it anymore.

you need sex coupled with other IOI's for any true indicator of interest.

look at the seduction community on reddit. tons of dudes saying why isn't this girl returning my calls i gave her mind blowing orgasam's last night.

she's not returning your calls because those mind blowing orgasam's didn't mean a damn thing to her. she just wanted some D. Take my friend for instance she's sexy as hell and was banging out a dude she wasn't even attracted to for two weeks straight because she was just bored and he knew how to lay the pipe. at the end of the day though that's all it was to her. just sex. she had no investment at all. ended up ditching him in the most brutal way possible to. Stood him up at his friends wedding.
 
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^ true....

My buddy lay pipe like mario...the girls dont necessarily like him.

I party with him cuz we party hard non stop...lol

But slvts gonna slvt as they say...

He could be consider3d a DJ...they k33p coming back lol
 
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Take my friend for instance she's sexy as hell and was banging out a dude she wasn't even attracted to for two weeks straight because she was just bored and he knew how to lay the pipe. at the end of the day though that's all it was to her. just sex. she had no investment at all. ended up ditching him in the most brutal way possible to. Stood him up at his friends wedding.
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Dude was a chump for inviting some f*ck-buddy to a wedding. Actions like that are probably what killed the desire for her. Which says to me that sexual techniques are secondary to other behaviors when it comes to attracting and keeping a woman. Just sayin'.... :yes:
 
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I have found that getting a girls number is quite easy. Getting her to go on a date without flaking is the hard part.
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thank you for joining fellow DJ.

of course it is easy getting girls numbers , but if u only got 3 or 4, then obviously theres a higher chance of them flaking , but if you get 30 , SERIOUSLY< 30 , I bet you u will get at least 18 dates on the first time, and some will flake onc and meet u the second time whilst others will continue flaking.

What if I told you I will also give you tips on the best way to get the first date?

If u get 30 numbers ill make sure you get at least a 70% success rate on the FIRST TIme asking, because a lot of girls will flake the first time.


so yeh, let me know how it goes
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dunno why some of these guys are dissing OP for trying to build some momentum and motivation.. that's what we're here for right?

Getting 30 numbers certainly isn't going to be a bad thing, even if it means nothing other than that.. you still built your inner game along the way. For some people this is a huge step and this could change their life. People just love to hate.

I'm in, I need to sharpen up my game a bit.
 
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