Mother: I Do Not Want My Daughter to Be ‘Nice’

[MatureDJ]

http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/07/31/i-do-not-want-my-daughter-to-be-nice

I am a radical, card-carrying feminist ...

I bite my tongue so that I won’t hiss at her to be nice. I tell you this confessionally. Because do I think it is a good idea for girls to engage with zealously leering men, like the creepy guy in the hardware store who is telling her how pretty she is? I do not. “Say thank you to the nice man who wolf-whistled!” “Smile at the frat boy who’s date-raping you!” I want my daughter to be tough, to say no, to waste exactly zero of her God-given energy on the sexual, emotional and psychological demands of lame men — of lame anybodies. I don’t want her to accommodate and please. I don’t want her to wear her good nature like a gemstone, her body like an ornament.

My opinion of her opinion:

 

[Boilermaker]

Raises my blood-pressure just to read this.

 

[Boilermaker]

BTW,

THIS IS HER SON and how she raises him.

http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/05/14/my-son-looks-like-a-girl-so-what/

AND HER DAUGHTER:

"And, currently, she is not in danger. She is decisive and no-nonsense, preferring short hair and soft pants with elastic waistbands."


What a freak show !!!!

 

[Dominance]

Ahhh way too much of this going on. (the gender doesn't exist bull****).

And what it's going to do is NOT give them 'freedom of expression to be who they are" it's going to **** them up majorly.

And it's sad women like this are also making their daughters way too aggressive and masculine with that attitude. What the hell is this crap raising girls like boys and boys like girls. Grr.

 

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I don’t want her to wear her good nature like a gemstone, her body like an ornament.

Somebody should tell this dunce that if she's raising her daughter to not be good natured a body as an ornament will be her only option.

I picture her at the prom in stripy cotton pajamas, eating potato chips with both hands. I picture her slapping a patriarch-damning sticker on her jacket. I picture her running the country,

*Facepalm*

I picture her a pissed off cat herder. Another one lost to the void.

 

[evan12]

She is sick woman , a lot of women in the comments didnt agree with her . I didnt bother reading the rest of her article.

 

[Dominance]

Oh god, I didn't notice the stripy pajamas part since I just skipped through it.

What... the... ****.

Somebody should tell this dunce that if she's raising her daughter to not be good natured a body as an ornament will be her only option.

Yep.. so true.

 

[VladPatton]

Typical rich, NYC Jewess raising a brat that can do no wrong. When a 10 year old is the most ethical person you know, you're in deep shıt!