"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mostly Weak Men Are The Ones Who Have Girlfriends

FairShake

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Mostly weak men are the ones who sh!t all over the ones with girlfriends to a bunch of guys on the internet.

Seriously, why the fvck do we have to be you? Or you be us for that matter? My guess is validation but vadiation by hating is the weakest trick in the book. Have fun over at YOUR lunch table and quit staring at mine.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Guoy Darko

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To answer the OP: It's pretty simple. Some guys love the hunt and love to **** as many girls as possible. Aparantly you belong to that group.

For other guys waking up next to a girl they don't know or don't care about is the ultimate sadness.

Besides that, sleeping with as much girls as possible is kinda slutty. :yes:
 

Serg897

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I would qualify the statement a bit - mostly weak men are the ones who have BAD girlfriends. Its rare to find a girl that is truly high quality. Most relationships arent good ones. 50% of marriages end up in divorce eventually. I have turned down some relationships lately only because I wasnt 100% into the girl. I think its better to stay single until you find someone that truly makes you feel happy and is truly compatible with you.
 
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