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uhm

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Hello all - yes, my post count is 'ONE' but I was a member here before my identity was exposed on another name back in my REALLY AFC days when I posted some stupid things.

So I made a new one as to be anonymous all over again. :up:

Anyway. On with what I am here for.

I've been noticing I have a bit of a problem recently. I get oneitis with EVERY girl I hang out with that is above an HB6. I don't know why, I know the game, I play the game. I just always end up liking her, and the more I ramble (which I'll probably proofread and omit this and make it shorter) I realize we ALL like the girl we gaming or we wouldn't be doing it.

I think I need some kind of personal 1-on-1 explanation of the m3 model if anybody is familiar or something similar. I've been talking to this HB7.5 A LOT via text messages and I actually got her to hang out at the mall yesterday no hitches. She was really shy and I mentioned that she needs to be more exciting and do SOMETHING. I busted on her saying I wish I had one of her friends there and she didn't come back negatively on that, but it wasn't something I should have said.

I kino'ed her and everything and by the end of the day she was giving me love taps. If I'd completely pull away from her and just kinda act like I was there alone while I was sitting by her she'd hit the bill on my hat and mess with me. I know for DAMN sure she is attracted to me. I'd say on a scale of attraction 1-10 she's got me on about a 6. So I mean, not too bad. I just don't know how to progress this and make her more open with me and do more hat hitting and kinoing me.

Advice? Please && thanks.
 

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uhm said:
Hello all - yes, my post count is 'ONE' but I was a member here before my identity was exposed on another name back in my REALLY AFC days when I posted some stupid things.

So I made a new one as to be anonymous all over again. :up:

Anyway. On with what I am here for.

I've been noticing I have a bit of a problem recently. I get oneitis with EVERY girl I hang out with that is above an HB6. I don't know why, I know the game, I play the game. I just always end up liking her, and the more I ramble (which I'll probably proofread and omit this and make it shorter) I realize we ALL like the girl we gaming or we wouldn't be doing it.

I think I need some kind of personal 1-on-1 explanation of the m3 model if anybody is familiar or something similar. I've been talking to this HB7.5 A LOT via text messages and I actually got her to hang out at the mall yesterday no hitches. She was really shy and I mentioned that she needs to be more exciting and do SOMETHING. I busted on her saying I wish I had one of her friends there and she didn't come back negatively on that, but it wasn't something I should have said.

I kino'ed her and everything and by the end of the day she was giving me love taps. If I'd completely pull away from her and just kinda act like I was there alone while I was sitting by her she'd hit the bill on my hat and mess with me. I know for DAMN sure she is attracted to me. I'd say on a scale of attraction 1-10 she's got me on about a 6. So I mean, not too bad. I just don't know how to progress this and make her more open with me and do more hat hitting and kinoing me.

Advice? Please && thanks.
I'd say invite her over or take her somewhere that you can increase the kino even more.
 

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ARrocket said:
I'd say invite her over or take her somewhere that you can increase the kino even more.
Alright, cool. She's just very shy and I don't understand why. There I go sounding AFC.

Maybe I'm in denial and she's genuinely NOT really interested in me.

Anyway - since this is my thread I'm hijacking it for another question. You check a girl out a little bit and notice she's doing the same & she says "quit staring at me" playfully. Being socially not savvy I stop looking at her as a type of pull-push. I was giving her all this attention and then I stop. Is this the proper technique or should it be something verbal?

I got a good reaction (that's when she hit my hat) but in the end it only was a 5 second good reaction and nothing that affected the outcome when we were out.

Also - I want to say one thing, she woke me up texting me (which I didn't tell her, but I appreciate because I didn't feel like sleeping all day) She's definitely been jumping through my hoops so I think I need to increase the benefit to me with these hoops.

I don't know, I'm kind of rambling, and I realize sorry. Maybe someone will some along and something will "hit home" with them and get more advice for me and maybe it'll help some other members if they decide to use the search function (laughs about that one, nobody does that - losers)
 
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