"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Spider

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Anyone else tired of seeing normal human interactions? I cant stand how corny guys act, and the goofy, trendy, tired subjects that women want to talk about. I get sick of women wanting to go to trendy bars with goofy designs and slacker workers who sell holistic teas from africa because they think its cultured.

Does anyone else notice the silly subjects most people seem to dwell on in interactions with the opposite sex?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If in a mall everyone go to every store except one where do you thing is the problem?
 

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GetOveIT said:
If in a mall everyone go to every store except one where do you thing is the problem?
So if every guy behave like an AFC except one,the problem is that singular one?
Correct me if i got it wrong.
 

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Maybe not the best way to explain but sometimes people just want to have fun, i agree that day by day the shallowness in society is growing but alienate yourself because of that isnt the answer.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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